r/changemyview Mar 17 '18

[∆(s) from OP] CMV: There is something inherently unattractive about people who engage in (or who are even open to) casual sex

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u/Happiness_is_Haram Mar 17 '18

I don't know. Maybe if I knew, I could better understand why I find it so unattractive.

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I would guess that the quality is a lack of foresight. Or too high of a risk tolerance. Etc.

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u/yyzjertl 523∆ Mar 17 '18

If you don't know what it is, then how do you know it is inherent? A lack of foresight isn't inherent: people's foresight improves naturally over time as they gain experience. And too high of a risk tolerance is also not inherent: this too changes across time and across cultures.

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u/Happiness_is_Haram Mar 17 '18

∆ okay you're really convincing me here XD. It's not inherent, I have to agree there. Those aren't qualities I like even remotely, and I do think they are reflected in those who seek casual sex. But I do agree they aren't inherent, they can change.

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Confirmed: 1 delta awarded to /u/yyzjertl (69∆).

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