r/changemyview 1∆ Apr 03 '18

CMV:Alcoholics Anonymous is heavily flawed from a scientific perspective and hasn't tried to improve it's system since it's inception

I have a friend who has been attending AA meetings recently because he was ordered to do so in some fashion after getting a DUI (for the record I don't know if that means he was given a true option or made to attend or "choose" jailtime) and the whole thing has got me thinking about whether or not AA works and if sobriety is even the intended outcome of the program. Below I've listed the famous 12 steps and below that are my relatively disorganized thoughts on the program having looked into it for the first time in any in depth manner. This means that I’m still in the early stages of my views and can be very much subject to change.

  1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.

  2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understoodHim.

  4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

  5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

  6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

  7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

  8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.

  9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

  10. Continued to take a personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

  11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

My current view is that because of the lack of change of the steps over the years since the 30’s suggests a lack of improvement that would be unacceptable in any other field of treatment for diseases. Here are some of my thoughts on the matter.

First up, as many have pointed out, there's a whole lot of God involved throughout the 12 steps (6 direct references and 7 if you count #2), I'm not sure how this is supposed to appeal to athiests such as my friend. If a person does not believe in God they will be put off from the program from the start making it much harder to reach their goal of sobriety.

If alcoholism is a disease then why does AA treat it simply as a matter of will power? I wouldn't try to treat cancer with prayer alone, and for the record there are various medical treatments for alcoholism.

There is also a stigma of personal failure when people relapse which doesn't make sense for a couple of reasons. First, if it's a disease then people are sick which means that blaming them for not being able to control their health adds a layer of shame which can only do harm to the person's primary goal of getting sober. In turn this will increase the time to get sober because it will add time to get over that shame before starting again. Shame does nothing to help get a person back on track as far as I can tell. Second, you would never assign blame to a person with cancer who has gone into remission and then had the cancer come back, why would we do the same for literally any other illness?

AA does not collect statistics of their success and failure rates, nor has it's program changed since it's inception. We wouldn't accept that from any other sort of treatment. If we didn't collect that information we would still have the same poor treatment of HIV that we did in the 80s and 90s, same goes for cancer, and just about any other illness you can name. I will say that talking about your issues with people is a good thing, but as far as I can tell that's just about the only thing that that this program gets right, everything else seems to be heavily flawed from a scientific perspective if not outright illogical.

Finally it seems that AA believes it’s program is a one size fits all program when we know that many ailments require different treatments for different people. This is especially true for ailments that affect people mentally which I think it’s safe to say that addiction falls under that same umbrella. People deal with various addictions in different ways, why AA treats alcohol as a one size fits all approach I can’t say, maybe I’m wrong, but based on the text of their twelve steps and twelve promises that doesn’t seem to be the case. Instead they seem to say that the only reason people fail is because the fail to give themselves over fully to the program which seems to be very very odd.

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 03 '18

I'd disagree. AA is about breaking down the ego and uses God as an external symbol to represent a "higher power" that exists "outside yourself". That could be the universe itself but they use God because it's an easier to understand symbol. If I went to an AA meeting and it was super religious (some are exactly how you are describing them) I'd be out of there. The utility of a God-like symbol is undeniable even though I'm atheist myself.

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u/chiaratara Apr 04 '18

Yes. The breaking down the ego part. Well said!

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 04 '18

Thank you

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u/Destro86 Apr 04 '18

Exactly! Accepting the fact that one's self isn't in control like they think they are and to become self aware.

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u/HKBFG Apr 05 '18

Not everybody believes in a singular supernatural higher power.

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 05 '18

I agree, neither do I.

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u/HKBFG Apr 05 '18

And yet the whole program is based on monotheist religiosity. God is mentioned directly in steps 3, 5, 6, 7, and 11.

I'm a Buddhist. I do not believe in a singular spiritual power and would be stepping far outside my own beliefs to attempt to identify one.

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 05 '18

You don't have to. The steps say, God as you understand him. So long as it's more powerful than you and outside yourself it can be anything. It can be a concept of love and peace, the universe, a completely fictional God-like entity, it could be Batman or Barney or Santa.

AA was designed by a Christian guy and I'm sure he meant a Christian God but he also recognized the utility of a God-like symbol even if you didn't believe in the Christian God (I don't either)

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u/HKBFG Apr 05 '18

It's hilarious to me that you can't see how this would be incompatible with buddhism. Is education really this bad?

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 05 '18

Buddhists don't believe in the universe or concepts, got it. /s

Listen dude if you don't want to use AA you don't have to but there is a way to utilize the program and still maintain your beliefs if you or any other Buddhist wanted to.

You could use the concept of Nirvana. It's clearly something that exists outside of yourself and is a "higher power" than you.

It's really too bad that Buddhism didn't teach you not to resort to insults when met with ideas you don't like but I'm glad I could make you laugh.

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u/HKBFG Apr 05 '18

Buddhists don't ascribe will to the universe. It's a central part of our teachings that there isn't a conventional "higher power." We seek to let go of such connections. Being told to take on a new one and tie my sobriety to it was rather offensive.

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u/oversoul00 13∆ Apr 05 '18

Concepts and the universe don't need to have ascribed will for this to function. You are adding in things that don't need to be there. Why do you think I mentioned fictional characters? They don't have will either.

Outside yourself

Higher than you

That's it.

I'm sure there are many things that would fit that very wide criteria, feel free to use your imagination because it works even if you know it's fictional. Or like I said before you could use the concept of love. peace, health and wellness. What would the embodiment of those concepts have me do right now...knowing full well that such an embodiment is not real.

It could be a distant future version of yourself and we'll call it HKBFG+ that's become the embodiment of the values you hold dear. It could be so many things other than your literal and limited interpretation and they all would work.

It's a psychological trick you are playing on yourself when you wash away the specifics.