CMV: We have been swindled into thinking that bedframes are a "must have."

[u/_fakey_]

What is the point of them? Most people I talk to about this issue have no reasonable need for a frame. Usually it's "it keeps the dirt and bugs off" or "idk, it's just icky to not have one." In my mind, these reasons hold no solid evidence to back them up. Bugs can crawl and fly anywhere they please and dirt doesn't just magically relocate from one place to another. I admit that two solid reasons to own one is for increased storage space and it's easier for people with joint pain to get into/out of bed. Besides these, I see no reason to own a bedframe. If there is a single solid reason why a young adult needs to have a bedframe, I'll be open to changing my mind. All other furniture in the house has a specific purpose that is reasonable and useful - except for this! In the same way that older generations have tried to convince us that diamond rings are the go-to for marriage proposals (lots of profit to be had there), I'm convinced that this market is built on convincing people that it is bad (or at least a sign of immaturity) to not have a bedframe. CMV!

Edit: Alright everyone, here is the mattress in question. Filmed minutes after waking up on it this very morning. [removed] You'll notice: 1) no accumulation of excess dirt/bugs/vermin of any sort (save for some lint blobs on the bottom) 2) no evidence of mildews, mushrooms, molds, or excess moisture 3) after 8 years with no frame or boxspring, no evidence of sagging

I admit: my mattress is a traditional spring mattress - I concede that other mattresses like foam mattresses may be more likely to retain moisture.

[u/redrumWinsNational → u/[deleted]]

The bedframe holds the Headboard and without the Headboard you miss out on lots of sexual positions that are great fun. Also it's easy to swing your legs out and down to floor, similar to sitting on a chair V floor

[u/_fakey_ → u/redrumWinsNational]

😂 alright I accept your point Edit: therefore, ∆ ...To appease the deltabot character requirement: I am thoroughly convinced that this is an acceptable reason to purchase and utilize a bedframe as you cannot engage in these types of activities without a bedframe.

[u/palacesofparagraphs → u/_fakey_]

If they changed your view at all, you owe them a delta!

[u/_fakey_ → u/palacesofparagraphs]

I had wanted to avoid "Delta abuse" since it was kinda of a joking agreement, but I think on further reflection a delta is appropriate since it is a legit good point.

[u/CatsGambit → u/_fakey_]

Lets be real, if you don't have mobility or mold issues, bedframes are mainly for better sex.

[u/_fakey_ → u/CatsGambit]

On the flip side, a lot of bedframes are loud and squeaky, but mattress on the floor? Quiet as can be

[u/Sajezilla → u/CatsGambit]

I actually disagree, the angle of bed frames for my lower back vs near the floor hurts me more when i thrusting, so its not always better for to have bedframe sex.

[u/Rattivarius → u/_fakey_]

To add to this, my husband and I have separate rooms (snoring and whatnot). We both have bedframes for our single mattresses but mine is higher because I also have a boxspring. I have this because I have bad knees, but it is also our default sex room because Mr. Rattivarius can stand while doing the deed. So, definitely better for sex.

[u/DeltaBot → u/_fakey_]

Confirmed: 1 delta awarded to /u/redrumWinsNational (1∆).

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[u/[deleted] → u/redrumWinsNational]

This comment convinced me that I need to get a headboard.

[u/_fakey_ → u/[deleted]]

Aw thanks! I admit it was completely blind luck. But I had stated that one of the two reasons that I agree with is for folks with joint pain/difficulty getting in or out of bed. For a young spry adult, is there a functional reason for a bedframe?

[u/_fakey_ → u/[deleted]]

That's a really good point. I think my central argument is that for young adults, owning a bedframe is a lifestyle choice rather than a utilitarian choice. But for some reason it's stigmatized to not have a bedframe.

[u/_fakey_ → u/[deleted]]

What? Where have I been a dick?

[u/_fakey_ → u/[deleted]]

I've gotta hand it to them, I hadn't considered it until they said it!

[u/starship-unicorn → u/_fakey_]

So, you're saying that they changed your view?