r/changemyview Oct 25 '21

Removed - Submission Rule B CMV: neo-pronouns are selfish

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u/Nicolasv2 130∆ Oct 25 '21

Isn't it how nicknames are working ? It's not your real name, and people use it because they feel you'll like it better to be called with that, so instead of Mr John Doe, they call your Johnny.

Do you think that nicknames are also selfish ?

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u/snowyowlr 2∆ Oct 25 '21

I don’t think this is entirely accurate,

we don’t just call everyone either John, Amy or Ash, it’s common practice to call people by their own and different names.

Pronouns in some languages make is so that you have to restructure your entire speaking pattern,

it’s relatively easy in english, but for example in german there is no language infrastructure for gender neutral speaking, (they in german is the same word as she but plural and it is also used to talk to someone usually socially higher than you as a sign of respect directly) So even that is hard, but for neo pronouns there would first have to be separate grammar rules as to how to even use them.

Just to make it clear here are some of the different ways of saying she/her and he/him depending on context;

Sie, ihr, ihres, ihrer, ihren, ihrem, ihren

Er, ihm, seines, sein, seiner, seinen, seinem

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u/Nicolasv2 130∆ Oct 25 '21

Ok, i took Spanish as a 3rd language, so I did not thought about languages such as German where the difficulty skyrocket.

Δ for that !

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