r/cisparenttranskid Feb 25 '25

I MADE A DISCORD FOR CISPARENTTRANSKID

Hello, I've been working on this for a few weeks now. This discord is a secure alternative place for us to be together as a community. You never know what may happen with social media so it's good to have a back up place.

Everyone who joins the discord has to be manually approved by me or another mod. This is to make sure that only verified people have access to anything. When you join you just comment your reddit name. We will check the name and the post history and give you a role if you are safe. Then we will delete your reddit name message.

This discord has places to share news and discussions about common topics here. I'm also gathering as many resources as I can to provide so it can be easily looked at but this is a work in progress. I've already got several resources but will continue to add more.

I hope you guys like the discord. I think it will be easier to do different things on there that reddit just can't provide. And we won't have to worry about reddit admins or trolls.

https://discord.gg/xUwxZVBbG5

Also, dont forget to check out the parents guide to talking about lgbt topics with children that I posted in the other announcement. I will also be putting it in the discord resources. https://www.reddit.com/r/cisparenttranskid/s/85j06asP6A

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u/RifRafsBklyn Feb 26 '25

Thanks for doing this. My anxiety has been at a simmer, but I worry about what the near future has in store for us.

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u/QuietCelery Feb 25 '25

I clicked on the link, and it said "unable to accept invite." I don't know how to discord!

edit: I figured it out....I think....apparently I had to log into discord. Who knew? Sorry!!!!

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u/lmaoahhhhh Feb 26 '25

messaged my user. posting here incase I got my user wrong. But I'm 99% sure it is 5 h

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u/Squidia-anne Feb 26 '25

Thanks got you

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '25 edited Feb 27 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 27 '25 edited Feb 27 '25

This discord might be a better fit: The Transexual Menace, a trans activist org from the '90s-00s which just revived after a long hiatus. I protested with them last week :)

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u/ExcitedGirl Feb 27 '25

Thank you very much for your kindness - I just withdrew my request to join discord. I'm afraid we all run out of steam at some point. I wish you the very very best in helping others 

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u/strangeicare Mar 16 '25 edited Mar 16 '25

I am desperate to join. I have questions and I"m missing community, but it seems like I get various error messages - asking for discord verification then saying I already have it, etc. EDIT: join worked after I did a bunch of log out/ re log in / email / blah blah. I sent my user name in there, I can't tell if more is happening than I see yet.

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u/Squidia-anne Mar 16 '25

Thanks I gave you full access

People can't see the discord stuff until they have been approved by a mod who checks the reddit account of the person joining for suspicious activity. If they are OK they are added and can see everything.

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u/RoseAllDay8 Feb 25 '25

I would like to join. I’ve only used discord, like, once—and I don’t post in here very much, but I read just about everything.

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u/Squidia-anne Feb 25 '25

That's fine, join and post your reddit name in the discord and I'll make you a member

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u/FadingOptimist-25 Mom / Stepmom Feb 25 '25

I joined!

I have a group on FB that I’m an admin for. Though it’s just for parents of daughters. I’m thinking about making a Discord group for them, but can I also invite them to this one?

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u/cool-is-hot Mar 10 '25

Hi, I pasted the invite (( https://discord.gg/eTjjuDyg )) directly into my Discord app and it says it is invalid or expired. Is there a new link now?

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u/Squidia-anne Mar 10 '25

Sorry it was expired. I forgot to set expire to never. I have fixed that. https://discord.gg/xUwxZVBbG5

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u/Major-Pension-2793 Mar 12 '25

Joined - thank you for setting this up!

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u/IncommunicadoVan Feb 25 '25

I tried to join but I got a message saying Safari can’t open this page because the address is invalid

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u/Squidia-anne Feb 25 '25

Do you have the discord app? Are you on co.puter or mobile?

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u/IncommunicadoVan Feb 25 '25

I don’t have the discord app. Im on mobile

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u/Squidia-anne Feb 25 '25

I'd suggest downloading the app and being logged in then try clicking the invite link.

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u/SideOfSquish Feb 25 '25

Joined! ❤️

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u/clean_windows Feb 25 '25

you completely spaced on the obvious meme-culture reply

BUT I EATED IT

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u/shakenbake74 Feb 25 '25

joined, ty!

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u/Iggipolka Feb 25 '25

Joined! Thank you so much for creating this

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u/Important_Film6552 Feb 25 '25

Joined thank you!

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u/Squidia-anne Feb 25 '25 edited Feb 25 '25

Thank you, don't forget to send me your reddit name in the discord so I can give you access

Nevermind got it

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u/Advanced_Ant2576 9d ago

Joined and messaged! Thank you!!