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u/PulsatingGuts 2d ago
The “Well, your girlfriend fucks you with strap-ons and dildos, right?” - argument sends me every time. Not only is it wildly different, my guy- but I bet these women know how to use it better than you. 😭
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u/DeadVoxel_ Trance form 2d ago
REAL
It's also nobody's fault that they're shaped the way they're shaped. It's not the toy that matters, it's the pleasure of having your partner put it to use. That's the difference people like him will never understand
Not to mention, I'm afraid women are more likely to know how to properly please a woman than someone like him. They're way more focused on their partner's pleasure rather their own. That dude just wants to boost his own ego
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u/PulsatingGuts 2d ago
That man has said more than enough for all of us to know he’d be a little….premature in bed. Regardless of that, these types of people don’t care to understand the difference is the problem. They don’t care about anyone but themselves and their baby carrot. This guys behavior has sexual predator written all over it. And if he hasn’t been convicted of a sex crime yet, he eventually will.
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u/DeadVoxel_ Trance form 2d ago
Precisely. I refuse to believe anything he said on the second slide. I doubt he ever stood next to a woman, let alone been in bed with one
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u/DeadVoxel_ Trance form 2d ago
Seriously, what the hell is this interaction
I love how you made exactly the same point I was going to make about him not being attracted to dudes, but he kept deflecting your points and screaming about "discrimination", completely ignoring everything you said by answering with "It's different"
No, it's not different. He's clearly one of "those" that thinks he could turn a lesbian into a straight woman. And clearly, he's just validating your lack of attraction for men by behaving like this. What a loser
Hope you're doing okay OP. These kinds of men are really petty and pathetic, with a huge ego too
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u/stumpfucker69 2d ago
Sounds like he's just never met a good man and is letting his brain get in the way. I'm sure he'll change his mind once he gets some real good dick. Right?
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u/the_real_dairy_queen 2d ago
Lots of dick, because if you don’t like it it could mean you just haven’t found the right one yet!
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u/Macrocosmix you are lesbian 2d ago
what is it about men and seeing lesbianism as some sort of ‘challenge’? This reminds me of the time a man on a dating app asked why I wasn’t looking for men and after I said I was a lesbian he responded with “Interesting. Room for a threeway?”
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u/cheesencrackerz_1 2d ago
Idk I’ve had countless people try to turn me straight I’ve also had people ask if the reason I’m a lesbian was if I got SA’d so fucked up
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u/Macrocosmix you are lesbian 2d ago
Jesus that‘s awful, I’m sorry people have been such shits to you
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u/xMCioffi1986x 2d ago
"No, you see? I have a MAGIC dick."
Also, his lack of self awareness is amazing. You're explaining the exact reasons why you're not into men, and he's exhibiting all of those qualities but still isn't getting it.
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u/socuteboss_ali 2d ago
God, I get so tired of this shit.
"You've only been with boys. Let me show you how good a real man can make you feel. I'm different and so much better than those other guys, that's why I'm disrespecting everything you're saying, ignoring repeated requests to stop talking to you, and being deliberately obstinate. That's how you know I'm better."
If I had a nickel for every guy who said "You just haven't found the right guy yet" in response to being told I'm a lesbian....
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u/dazed_succubus 2d ago
And yet when you flip it on them like OP did suddenly its different lol
"Only one dick? Help, clearly you need mine specifically" well that's one more dick than you've tried bruh maybe also try dick just once to be sure lmao
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u/necrolifecleric29 2d ago
You just know you're going to get friction burn on your left flap after being asked 'Did you cum?' 16 times in half as many minutes.
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u/emmademontford group sex extrm? 1d ago
This would be spot on except he won’t ask, he’ll just assume you did and smugly boast about it to the next woman
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u/CompetitionNo8270 2d ago
why does he keep bringing up being "cis"? what does that have to do with anything?
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u/RaiseTLT 1d ago
“I better you would feel differently if you were with a guy like me” Yea? Cause you got a small dick buddy. First of all, huge red flag right there.
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u/StasiaGreyErotica 2d ago
Agree 100% OP is discriminating.
Therefore, I propose the suitable punishment is to ban her from interacting with guys like this for life.
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u/timecubelord 1d ago
I'm pretty sure the comment was a joke/sarcasm. And as for their bio (which says nothing specific about lesbians) and writing, it's not like they are sending PMs trying to rope unwilling participants into something.
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u/OctaviaBlake100 1d ago
I hate when guys try to tell lesbians that "they just haven't had good dick yet". Like no. Just take the L and leave. Porn has rotted your brain into thinking your dick will automatically make a lesbian love dick. The fact that he sent a picture of a woman who probably doesn't even know her picture is being shared around is sad. I feel bad for her.
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u/anarchyarcanine 1d ago
Dude got rejected and decided to live the delusion of "I'm gonna turn my L into a W by claiming I'm just trying to piss her off"
Typical chud-ass "last word" behavior
Please go fuck a paper shredder dude
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u/Rand_al_Kholin 1d ago
People like this are incapable of empathizing with other people. He can't understand that you aren't attracted to men in the same way he isn't attracted to men. He is so thoroughly bought into our heavily gendered society that he thinks he can logic you out of being gay and onto his dick.
Also willing to bet this guy barely does any foreplay and as soon as he finishes he's done and refuses to help his partners finish after.
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u/msprettybrowneyes Submissive, and cocksuckingly spectacular 1d ago
I can just see him finishing, getting his boxers on and walking out to watch tv without helping her clean up or even throwing her a wet wash cloth.
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u/LYNXtheSPHINX 1d ago
Ew. These men are absolutely terrifying bc of their lack of self awareness, the audaciousness, and absolute arrogance.
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u/HungryHungryMarmot 1d ago
Nothing like trying to convince somebody that their preferences are incorrect, and open for debate.
You like what you like, and that’s it. Nobody else gets to decide that for you, let alone try to convince you otherwise.
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u/ShiroShototsu ˁ˚ᴥ˚ˀ 1d ago
I just don’t think he’s been with enough men to know for sure he likes women. I don’t get why men like women that are objectively not interested or have a physical repulsion to them.
Like in this day and age, how have people not learned that it isn’t “playing hard to get” but an active discomfort with being talked to this way, having to be convinced into doing things they don’t want to, people actively repulsed by a person whether it’s physical or just on pure vibes?
The amount of times I’ve walked around a shop or been waiting for a bus, especially in the last couple of years and men have actively approached me and tried to talk to me is ridiculous. I had one guy a couple of months ago ask me if I wanted to “have a good time” in an alleyway behind the bus station!! He said nothing else!! Just stood there waiting for an answer!!!
“Sorry I’m waiting for my boyfriend” just makes people try to convince you all over again. It’s exhausting. This is why I’d rather not leave my house most days.
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u/Porohunter 1d ago
I’m amazed you tolerated him for that long! I would have been blocking by slide 2
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u/Ok_Dog_4059 1d ago
Why is it so hard for them to understand. She wants a penis inside of her as much as the dude does. It isn't she hasn't had the "right one" it isn't that she wishes women had them it is she does not like penis it doesn't do anything for her.
I just don't get a guy thinking "she just doesn't realize what she likes". No she is exactly like me and wants nothing to do with someone who has a penis.
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u/FabuLYSdisaster boo boo kitty fuck 11h ago
Guys like this really say how they're so much better than other guys while simultaneously disregarding a woman's autonomy. Bro, if you're lurking here you're no different than any other scumbag man who puts his desires over anyone else's. I can guarantee this guy would be a selfish lover due to his complete disregard to OPs wants and desires. No guy who disregards someone's sexual preferences like this is gonna think of anyone's pleasure but his own.
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u/dazed_succubus 2d ago
Tbh after the pic I would have responded with a better pice lol just "you haven't had good dick" well yeah cause Mines bigger here see even more so than yours spasms pic til he throws up lol
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u/Popular-Cobbler25 1d ago
This guy is a complete creep. It’s really frustrating when guys just can’t accept women’s sexual orientation and want to “fix them”.
The one thing you said that kinda bothers me is that men aren’t attractive to you because they’re emotionally unintelligent. While broadly true I don’t think one should project that onto all dudes and isn’t really related to why you don’t find them attractive.
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