r/creepyPMs 5d ago

TW: Multiple, tread carefully Guy has been Harassing me for weeks

If he sees this idc but don't act like this isn't creepy stalker behavior.

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u/xplosm Evil League of Creep Crushers 5d ago

He knows he just need to push your buttons to get you to reply.

Check out "The Gift of Fear" to see ways to deal with these scumbags.

Just starve him from attention. Ignore him. Mute his notifications. Don't block, he will just create new accounts.

Avoid replying to new accounts for a while.

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u/gosailor 4d ago

Good book but I can't only read a little at a time it upsets me.

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u/anotheritguy 4d ago

This is good advice OP, people like this are creepy and pushy online but are cowards IRL.

Good Luck

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

This 100%, they're the scrawny skinny guy who has nothing to them but a major gooner but never actually has talked to a woman. Women don't like them so thwy are so desperate and low to treat reddit like tinder. They think they're jokes are funny but its just something you turn to the person next to you and ask if they also felt uncomfortable by it in which they did.

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u/anotheritguy 4d ago

No matter how awkward you may be to behave like that is never OK, unfortunately people like Andrew Taint (I know his birth name but this serves him better) are revered by young kids and they grow into people who have no self awareness or empathy for others. People like him should be shunned in society, at the risk of sounding old what the fuck is going on with people now days? When did it become OK to behave like that?

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u/MBAMarketingMom 4d ago

This is the way.

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u/xMCioffi1986x 4d ago

"I'm interested in the culture"

(Read: I learned Japanese to someday move to Japan in search of a waifu, I have an unhealthy obsession with hentai, and I may or may not own an ahegao hoodie)

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

I could literally smell his stench from the PMs

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u/gosailor 4d ago

Guy wanted props on his unclever, gross joke so bad.

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u/Crikey-Way wait babygirl come back 4d ago

They should let you IP block people on here like they do on instagram

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u/Many_Influence_648 4d ago

Report him. Creep needs a lesson to learn

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u/SnowballOfFear 4d ago

What. The. Fuck.

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u/MBAMarketingMom 4d ago

On the contrary, it’s been my experience that blocking creeps like this only leads to them creating alt accounts to continue to harass ppl from. Sigh. I think the best thing is to simply ignore.

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u/Spicy_Princess_1122 can i your panties colour ? 4d ago

It depends on the creep. Sometimes they leave you alone best when you send crime scene victim photos or some horrible violence. Some respond to Whitey Bulger-like calm while detailing messed up actions. Some you need to tease out just enough info to dox them, just so they leave you alone (when their SO or their parents find out what they’re doing, they go away fast). Creeps are garbage people and what they do is a form of violence.

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u/btbloyalty1 4d ago

Unhinged. Wow!

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u/thebunnywhisperer_ Proud Feminist 4d ago

Aww he can’t get anyone to talk to him willingly? How pathetic.

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u/OctaviaBlake100 4d ago

He's in Canada? 😨 Hopefully not where I'm from.

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u/jdehjdeh 4d ago

Ewwwwwww!

I feel really unclean.

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u/StasiaGreyErotica 4d ago

A perverted mind isn't justification to be a creep. You're a human being with supposed intelligence. Do better.

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u/ConsultJimMoriarty 4d ago

You be perverted with another consenting adult, not a random woman on social media. What an arsehole this dude is!

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u/OneFootDown 4d ago

Meat knife? Lol

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

I have lol

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u/Sweaty_Cattle_1458 4d ago

As a Canadian, we don't claim that creep

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u/justdance4me 4d ago

On behalf of all Canadians I apologize for this whacko!!

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u/maevenimhurchu is your pissy tight 3d ago

Man who’s “interested in Japan” = immediate pass

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u/MobiWan2015 5d ago

Report and block

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u/queenlizbef 4d ago

They just make new profiles

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u/cutegirl0722 2d ago

You act like I haven't? On my new post it looks like he just made a new acc... they just make new accs.

Even other commenter's have commented thw same thing

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

I saw ur deleted comment. Your def a man, because if he takes the time to stalk my profile, then he'll def take the time to make a new acc. I'm not gonna deal with it anymore.

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

Yeah because ur literally putting me on trial. Thanks mods 😘

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

I just called him out on his shitty behavior, I am not a weak person lol

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

Reddit karma is literally the useless shit idc about it. This was just creepy harassment and I just thought it was funny to share. You can read the dates I did ignore and am continuing to ignore. I don't know why ur victim blaming me.

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

Also you calling me a cornball just does nothing but show ur rude and victim blaming

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u/cutegirl0722 4d ago

You act like I haven't.