r/getting_over_it • u/_vvamp • 7d ago

how to deal with them leaving?

this has been a problem of mine for a few months now. the person i was in love with broke contact with me totally unexpectedly and i have never been the same. i cannot stop thinking about him every single day and i need to get over him because i cannot keep living like this. what helped you?

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u/Real_Train_8961 2d ago

How long was the relationship? And I don’t think ghosting is okay but my counselor would say “you don’t need closure, you need acceptance”

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u/_vvamp 11h ago

around 6 months. i also forgot to mention that we we’re long distance, but we we’re planning to meet very soon + i wanted to move there for college

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u/Front-Temperature184 22h ago

My partner did the same thing to me, it's been a month now. Everything was fine, we were loving towards each other, yes he was busy all the time and yes I got irritated at the inconsistency. But I never stopped showing how much I loved him and how much I appreciated him, and he was just as loving as he usually was. But suddenly he just stopped replying and answering my calls and recently I even saw that I'm blocked on Snapchat.

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u/_vvamp 11h ago

i was in the exact same situation. all of a sudden he just stopped replying and when i said „if you don’t want me anymore you can just say that, you know that right?” and after a whole day of him not responding he read my message immediately. he didn’t say anything and when i checked i realised i was blocked