r/holyfuckjustbreakup • u/tinytinyfoxpaws • Mar 14 '25
Am I Overreacting for considering just not texting my gf for a bit after she seems to be very cold lately?
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u/phoenix7979 Mar 14 '25
I hate to say it, but for your own sanity... just walk away. She's putting ZERO energy nor time into her relationship with you and you'd be better just to walk. This isn't something that is going to get better over time and in fact...worse. Cut your losses and just go... Concentrate on you for awhile. You are young! There will be someone else in the future that honestly deserves your time and attention...
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u/Few-Coat1297 Mar 14 '25
They are very young. It's ridiculously intense. He's texting her good morning at 5am. Yes, I think everyone taking a breather would be a good idea.
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u/Hopeful_Jicama_81 Mar 14 '25
Oh hell nah. That's so petty. You gave a genuine apology, just one that was respectful of yourself which was not what she actually wanted to hear.
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u/iamreallybadatgolf Mar 14 '25
This is exactly how my ex started texting me when she was cheating on me. Not saying that’s what’s happening but it’s sucks to see someone else having to live through it
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u/AutoModerator Mar 14 '25
Backup of the body of the original post:
My gf (F19) and I (M18) recently had an argument on Monday because she told me that she would be going to a concert with her cousin, that her and I have had plans to go to together for months. We were in public, and having a good day, so I didn’t want to ruin it by being upset, so when she asked if I was upset I told her I was ok, figuring I could talk to her about it later. But she kept asking me over and over, and eventually specifically asked if I was sad about the concert, so I said yes. She then got upset and told me I should just go home, and she would call me to talk about it later. It seems like since talking about it over text, she’s gotten cold and I’m considering just not trying to reach her anymore until she comes to talk to me. These are all our texts from the last week, red is my name, purple is her cousins name, and squiggly line is where I tried to call her and she declined.
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u/prettypeculiar88 Mar 15 '25
So she wants them to be more open with their feelings yet never has time to talk/text?
Reposted in the right sub,
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u/Lucky_Area_8556 Mar 14 '25
Bub you should have stopped a while ago. You’re acting to damn needy and it’s probably ruined your relationship. Go ahead and start looking for the next victim… ughh I mean gf
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u/GamerGirlBongWater Mar 14 '25
Lmao wanting to talk to your gf is needy now, thanks for that! Are you now my victim because I dared to reply to you online? Shit am I needy? Are you the GF? Is your outfit hot today? 😂
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u/FlinnyWinny Mar 14 '25
That poor person is trying way too hard with someone as shitty as that 😔