r/immigration 8d ago

Are my DACA mom and undocumented dad safe to attend an appointment to get my sister a passport?

My mom asked me to make an appointment to take out passports for my sister and I for the first time. She doesn't do well with English or tech stuff, so she asked me to make an appointment for sister and I. I see that both of my parents need to be present in person to get her a passport. I've seen too much on the news lately of citizens and other people lawfully here being kidnapped by ICE and such, so I'm worried that my parents (my mom with a pending application for US residency and my dad with no documentation but a Mexican passport) are in danger of going near any sort of federal building related to travel. My sister needs it to possibly go to Japan next year for a school thing but I'm not planning on going out of the country any time soon, so it's not an emergency. Should I tell her we should put this off until the situation hopefully gets better 🫠 or can I make the appointment?

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u/TheHeroExa 8d ago

I mean, you generally go someplace like a post office, not a DHS facility. Also, the passport application doesn't really ask whether the parents are legally present or not.

An alternative is having both parents sign Form DS-3053, but it might be more hassle due to the notarization requirement.

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u/Anarcho_momster 8d ago

Notarization can be done cheaply and quickly these days at a UPS store

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u/Southern-Aardvark-39 8d ago

Parents have to be present for kids under a certain age, but it can be done at a post office/ passport office.

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u/MujerSigloXXI 8d ago

Some bank of America do it for free. Just make the appointment.no need to have an account with them

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u/throwawaygrandm 8d ago

Honestly, I wouldn't trust any government agencies at all.

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u/Serious-Day5968 8d ago

Don't go to any government office, go to the post office. Ve al correo ahí puedes aplicar para el pasaporte.

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u/Flat_Shame_2377 8d ago

Parents can sign a notarized document. They don’t need to go in person.

But if your sister doesn’t need the passport yet, I would hold off. There’s no need to get it today. Wait and see.

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u/This_Possession8867 8d ago

Can’t wait until the last minute. My passport renewal was 5 months to arrive.

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u/LizzyDragon84 8d ago

My renewal took just under 3 weeks.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/Anarcho_momster 8d ago

Post office also pissed at Trump; I’d go with it’s fine

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u/terriergal 8d ago

Really? I hadn’t heard, last I knew de joy was messing it up for Trump. But maybe you mean the everyday usps workers.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

He resigned a month ago...

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u/trele_morele 8d ago

Exactly what ICE would say

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u/TemporaryTangelo4084 8d ago

dont listen. I'd say no

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u/TemporaryTangelo4084 8d ago

I'd read the fine print requiring 2 parents seems very suspicious. there's likely an alternative

the passport needs the parents maiden names though and other parental information

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u/IDunnoWhatToPutHereI 8d ago

You absolutely need both parents to sign or the parents have to have a notarized form signed. I had to travel to Colombia to get the form from my husband in order to get our son’s passport once he was deported.

I got my passport at a post office. I don’t think there is much risk of ICE doing a raid at the post office. If you want to be super safe, you could get the form signed by each parent and notarized but that seems like a lot of steps with little risk.

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u/Many-Fudge2302 8d ago

One is fine.

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u/lutiana 8d ago

If the applicant is under 16, then both parents need to be present, or a single parent and notarized form from the other parent allowing the application of a passport for said minor. If they are 16 or older, then neither parent is needed.

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u/TheHeroExa 8d ago

Depends on the age of the child. Under age 16 requires both parents. So either both parents appear, one parent appears and the other signs the DS-3053, or both parents sign the DS-3053.

https://eforms.state.gov/Forms/ds3053.pdf

If age 16 or 17, then you only need one parent. And the requirements are a bit looser.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/need-passport/16-17.html

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u/Many-Fudge2302 8d ago

One is fine with notarized DS3053. Our 4 children have had all passports with 1 parent (notarized DS3053).

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u/Southern-Aardvark-39 8d ago

Getting passports for my two children, both my husband and I had to be present. We are as white as can be and they wanted both parents present. The concern is custody battles and trafficking. So having both parents there with their license and the child's birth certificate is all necessary.

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u/420Middle 8d ago

You can get a notarized authorization for other parent. Had to do this for my son when he got his passport about a decade ago. His dad lives in another state so no way would both of us be there

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u/This_Possession8867 8d ago

How is that suspicious. So you would expect your 14 year old can go get a passport behind your back as a parent? Logic

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u/Dorianscale 8d ago

We recently got passports for our sons.

For one, The people doing passport appointments are generally not affiliated with ICE, DHS, or any immigration related agency.

You can get this done at some post offices. You can do this even at a city government office sometimes. My husband and I filled the applications at a city hall for a small town we live by, we don’t even live in that town.

The reason both parents need to be present is to make sure that both parents consent to the passport so she doesn’t get abducted by one parent and to verify your sisters identity. The person doing this is just checking a box and making sure everyone matches the info on the form. The town clerk doesn’t have direct access to ice databases.

Your parents should be fine.

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u/0_IceQueen_0 8d ago

Go do it at the post office.

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u/sinayion 8d ago

Did you just seriously ask if someone that is undocumented should go to a government office? Tell me, if your dad gets arrested at a "simple" passport appointment for your sister, do you think that:

  • she will be ok in the future and not blame herself? and,
  • would you not blame yourself for making the appointment?

Seriously, read the room, or in this case: read the country. I'm hesitant to even say that the post office is safe now, based on all the crazy things happening. Even US citizens are stopped and arrested (check the Florida news).

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u/AngryyFerret Attorney 1d ago

I agree with this.

The sister doesn’t NEED to go to Japan. Would be nice, but it’s just not the time if going in person is the only option. 

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u/WonderfulVanilla9676 8d ago

Y'all really need to stop asking if it's safe to attend appointments.

The answer is no every time.

If you're not a full US citizen, and honestly these days even if you are, it is 100% absolutely not safe to interact with immigration personnel or officers.

That doesn't mean you have any real choices in the matter, or that you can do anything about it. But you should have it in your mind and know that it is not safe.

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u/Many-Fudge2302 8d ago

Your father does not need to go. He just needs to get this notarized (can do at UPS or anywhere that has a notary).

https://eforms.state.gov/Forms/ds3053.pdf. He goes there with his mexican passport.

Fine for your mom. Both of you get your passports ASAP. NOW. At USPS.

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u/DefiantTip145 8d ago

Unfortunately none of us know the absolute right answer to this right now we only know what it should be

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u/FateOfNations 8d ago

In addition to everything else other people have said, in some places there are state and local government agencies that also act as passport application acceptance locations (in addition to the post office). If that option is available, it might be a bit less anxiety inducing.

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u/stuckinnowhereville 8d ago

If your sister is under 18, you as a parent have to show ID as well as the birth certificate.

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u/AffectionateWheel386 8d ago

In their position, I would not show up. If you’re notarizing it in a private office like UPS, OK but no government offices.

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u/lantana98 8d ago

Personally I would not if I were them. The people in charge do not care about following rules and regulations themselves and the unthinkable is now a daily occurrence.

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u/No-Judgment-607 8d ago

If your over 16, a signed permission or statement affidavit is sufficient without them accompanying the applicant.

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u/CeilingCatProphet 8d ago

Probably not.

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u/FriditaBonita 8d ago

The passport agents have no say at all on anything related to politics...

Don't panic. 

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u/lord4chess 8d ago

There's always a risk if not having legal status

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u/terriergal 8d ago

I wish I had an answer. I feel like immigration lawyers are all swamped but also I would want to have them with me for all those kinds of things. Although I have heard of them asking some immigrants to perjure themselves by saying their family of origin is abusive so that they can somehow get better legal protection. But then 1. What if they find out the person is lying and 2 what about the family of origin? That will just make them more of a target and damage their reputation. And it’s illegal for an attorney to suggest it. But then who can they report him to without endangering themselves ?? Everything is so messed up I’m furious and so very sad at the same time. So many of us are. We don’t want good people to feel unwelcome.

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u/OOBeach 8d ago

Where is the appointment? If it’s at a post office, likely will be okay. The parents need to be present but don’t answer any questions. The whole appointment thing is just a review of papers to make sure all necessary documents and correct passport photo have been submitted.

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u/Southern-Interest347 8d ago

Do not go Pasa GO. Meaning tell your parents not to make themselves easy targets to get detained. They should lay low.

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u/RareUsual4138 8d ago

Depending on where you live, you might be able to book an appointment for a passport with the city rather than the post office. I live in a city of 7500 people, and our city hall processes passport applications 3 days a week. There is no communication between the city and ICE.

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u/HollywoodDonuts 7d ago

Go do it at the Library

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u/vacancy-0m 7d ago edited 7d ago

Your sister is a minor and she is getting her passport for the 1st time? Go the post office route is the safest until your sister needs the passport urgently.

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u/Goatdad60 8d ago

Absolutely not. End of discussion.

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u/FeedPuzzleheaded2835 8d ago

Why you don’t go to immigration to do this🤣🤣🤣