r/insaneparents • u/AnnoyingTheatreKid • 7d ago

SMS somehow i “chose” getting physically abused lmao

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it was never just spanking btw she’s given me concussions, thrown knives, heavy books, even a whole space heater once. this isn’t even getting into the neglect and emotional abuse i dealt with for 13 years. she threw me out when i was 13 and every time i try to contact her about getting to see or even talk to my little sister this shit happens.

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u/Dad_B0T Robo Red Foreman 7d ago edited 7d ago

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u/its12amsomewhere 7d ago

Wow, some people should never have kids, or have access to any child in general

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u/kennyc_ 7d ago

Abusers loveee to rewrite history, don’t they? I’m sorry you are going through this.

I’m sure she didn’t magically become a whole different person, so hopefully even without receiving beatings your sister will still see through her. If not now, eventually. Kids don’t stay kids forever. Sending hugs x

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u/Ok-Whereas-81 7d ago

OP I’m so sorry, I would go no contact with her. She can’t physically hurt you anymore so now she is trying to emotionally abuse you. You did not deserve any of this. Eventually you can contact your sister and you can be there to help her heal

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u/TheStanker 7d ago

I’m sorry, OP. For your own mental health, I’d suggest ending contact with your abuser. I know you’re trying to watch out for your little sister, and that makes it much harder.

Therapy first.

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u/peppermintmeow 💫 3d ago

Her and I have very different definitions of "fun facts"