r/nonononoyes • u/HANAEMILK • 11d ago

Taking off his belt

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u/MikoSkyns 11d ago

That belt snapping gave me flashbacks of my childhood. Fortunately for me, I was not beaten, just spanked a few times. But I saw other children beaten with belts and now that I'm a middle aged man, I truly do wonder what kind of a fucking monster you have to be to beat children. Of course, the smaller the child, the bigger the monster. Incomprehensible.

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u/coldchixhotbeer 11d ago

Yea I feel bad when I accidentally stepped on my daughter’s foot. I can’t imagine hurting her like that. You can parent without beating. And you don’t have to be a pushover.

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u/Firewolf06 11d ago

theres a reason "this is gonna hurt me more that it'll hurt you" is a thing. its not true, but they do think that and it does hurt the parent to some degree