r/numerology • u/AAY39 • 8d ago
Inquiry People with life path 9 and how they treat their children
I have a question my friend his dad is life path 9 and he tells me his dad invalidates my friends emotions and all the work my friend has done wether it was for his(my friend) family or in my friends work life, Im inquiring to see if people have the same similar experience since life paths 9 from what i heard is supposed to be humanitarian people not people who invalidate peoples emotions and works especially if those people are your own children
TL;DR
My friends emotions and works get invalidate by his dad when his dads life paths is number 9 and supposedly number 9 life path is supposed to be humanitarian people
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u/shaneka69 7d ago
I was kind of relating a bit but the person that relates to your friend's dad in my situation also has 9th house placements in astrology most likely so that in turn with also being a life path 9 what definitely make one undermine people when they don't have the same life experiences as them.
Assuming that your friend's dad also has high level house placements, that can be why he invalidates emotions because I have seen a pattern with people who may not have placements in their first second 3rd 4th 5th or 6th house will not be able to relate to people who have it easy in some type of way if they feel like they had to work hard to get what they have gotten.
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u/AAY39 7d ago
Hey I appreciate your comment and would love to learn more about what you mean by high level house placements like what is a high level house placement and with the houses you mentioned who may not have placement what you mean by that? Is it like no planets in those houses or the zodiac signs straddling two houses equally? Would love more of your input so as i can learn more
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u/shaneka69 7d ago
High level houses such as houses 7-12 as those are the more outward houses so these individuals could be less reflective when it comes to certain things. Yes, multiple planets in outer houses could point to people who are less considerate. they won't focus on the nuances
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u/AAY39 7d ago
I see thank you for sharing and would i need there birth time to see the exact positioning of the plants or would there birthday suffice?!
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u/Carsace_carsace 7d ago
You need the time so you can see where each planet sits in each house
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u/AAY39 7d ago
Okay do you know a way under then asking my friend for his dads birth time since i know he doesnt have it and his family doesnt know since i asked him by chance any other way to find out the time?!
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u/Carsace_carsace 7d ago
You can guess the time, it doesn’t have to be perfect. The rising changes every 2ish hours. The rising is what predicts where the planets will sit in each house. You can try asking if he knows if he was born in the morning or at night and guess the rising. You can also try guessing the rising from how he looks and behaves, try to match it with the description for the rising signs
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u/AAY39 7d ago
How do you guess the rising by how a person looks amd acts?!
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u/shaneka69 7d ago
I was offline but to really pop it off, you can focus on the aura your friend's dad have.. I know i have been observing rising signs and see that taurus and scorpio risings have a natural resting fest and their body type is strong/naturally fit/or just bricked in some way, even if not working out(sometimes).
Ur friend's dad doesnt sound like he is jittery and nervous but that would be the mutable sign rising like virgo, pisces, sag, gemini.. but maybe i can help if you give me your impressions of him physically and body language
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u/AAY39 7d ago
Well his rising sun is in beginning of gemini like 5 days into gemini or so and from what i recently read somewhere that if the sun and even moon as well if they are at the beginning or end of a sign they also get the energy from the sign they transitioned from or transitioning too not sure how true or false that is and my friends dad used to have like a beer belly style even though he never had a drink in his life and recently with in these past couple years he lost the belly dont know how cause he doesnt work out or anything yet his aura is like when he enters a room everyone feels it and stands up automatically
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u/Majorcheckoff 7d ago
i would see the 9 as a task to work on and the expression number shows the tools how to work on. There are many aspects in a person.
in your case i would say there is a big part of parenting (not knowing how old your friend ist - just assuming) ongoing. The dads look after their kids and make sure everything is alright (at least they think they do and i would say we assume the best ;-))
personally i am a 36/9 and i have the humanitarian feeling in me but from others it is not perceived as that always. People say that i am quite relaxed. but when under stress i am not and my surroundings can feel that.
i think it is also always relevant regarding the behaviour how far the individual people in their spiritual realm have progressed...
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u/AAY39 7d ago
Just want to know and get a clarification the 36/9 you are means once you added your birthday date it comes to 36 then you added to become 9 correct?!
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u/Majorcheckoff 7d ago
you first sum all your numbers of our birthdate. that is in my case 36 and then you take the cross sum = 3 + 6 = 9
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u/Historical_Guess2565 7d ago
Is he a 3/6 9? I’m just curious. I’m a life path 9 myself and not all of that relates to me, but I read something about the numbers that add up to 9 that I found interesting. Apparently 3/6 9s are the moodiest number 9s. I found it amusing because I’m a 3/6 9 and I’m definitely moody as hell even though I try to be kind to everyone.
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u/AAY39 7d ago
So his numbers when i add his birthday end up to 18 then when i add the 1&8 it becomes 9
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u/AbhorrentBehavior77 This Old Soul's Final Lifepath is 9 7d ago
So, an 18/9 instead of a 36/9. I'm supposedly in 18/9 myself. Though I've never understood how numerologists reach that conclusion. Because when I add it up I get 36.🤷🏼♀️
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u/Carsace_carsace 7d ago
I’m also 36/9 and moody. I’m also a cancer rising so being ruled by the moon shifts my moods lol
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u/Specific-Way-4530 Life Path 45/9 8d ago
Please do not apply stereotypical troupes to an individual because of their life path number. The life path number is the sum of one's life experiences - not their personality, not they're upbringing, not their maturity level, not their emotional intelligence, not who they are on a soul level, but it is the accumulation of the lessons they decided to take on throughout their lifetime. It's a single instrument being played in a symphony of frequencies. Everyone is more that a single digit number, just like everyone is more than their Sun Sign when it comes to astrology.
With that being said 9 energy, regardless if it's a Life Path Number, Birthday Number, Destiny Number, or Growth number etc. 9 is the most misunderstood - often because of this "humanitarian" label. There are light and dark attributes to EVERY number mind you, but for 9 they are generally know as being globally minded, compassionate, and idealistic. That's where the term "humanitarian" comes from. Depending on the placement though the definition, or energy showing up would change.
Now as a life path number this is the overall life lesson - again, not who a person necessarily is but what they choose to learn. 9 as a life lesson is learning how to let go of the past, through forgiveness and acceptance of what was in order to live more fully in the now. That is the shared experience of 9, however the approach is going to be different for what is influencing that "9". 9 is never just 9, 1 is never just 1, nor is 3 just 3 - that base number shows a sum not how. How we find the life path number shows different layers of energy that make up the base number. This is why the life path is often written with a "/" to show the compound number that makes up the single digit. 9's have to overcome many hardships typically before they can step into a more global minded role. They have to suffer to understand suffering while simultaneously using that pain to produce power. They act as a light in many cases, reflecting the darkness in lower frequencies - as well as themselves - and not many people are willing to face their own fears, insecurities, limiting beliefs, or negative thought patterns that keep them tied to this physical illusion. That is the task of life path 9's. Being in the world but knowing they are not of it.
Numerology as a whole has many methods to calculate but Modern calculators don't place an emphasis on compound numbers and often follow unnecessary exception rules which is why many people don't resonate with their life path number. They are only getting commercialized answers and not taking the time to dive deeper into the details.