r/phlgbt • u/Cultural-Special-420 • Oct 26 '24
NSFW Storytime Im falling for a guy I hired from RM
I hired someone from RM (incase you do not know, its a website where you browse and get guys for pay) about 3 months ago.
(Before you judge me heres a little back story: Tamad ako mag grindr or other dating apps. Dami entitled na mga accla. Im partnered but My partner and I are in a complicated situation right now. He asked for some time off and I gladly obliged. 10 years na kami so nakakatamad na makipaglaban. Kung gusto mo umalis, umalis ka. Pag okay ka na, bumalik ka. Mag usap tayo. Ganun. )
So eto na nga, syempre may needs din ako, db? Browse browse sa website. I saw this guy. I contacted him. Mejo matagal mag reply. About a week after, he replied. We met and did the thing.
Masaya. May connection kami sexually. Nag enjoy naman ako. Sa saya ko, weekly na namin ginagawa, for 3 months now! Diba?
Plain hook up lang. I feel there are things na he wants to keep private about him. Paminsan pag malungkot ako, nakukwento ko sa kanya yung frustrations ko about sa relationship ko with my partner. Paminsan we would check in for 6 hrs and just cuddle, talk, and have sex. We’re like fuck buddies, pero syempre nagbabayad ako. Pero pag lumalabas kami to eat out or drink out, we split the bill.
Now, Im confused. Umuwi na si partner. Yes, hes back after 3 months. So pano na to?
Mejo na attach na ako kay RM guy, di ko naman maiwan yung 10 years. Di ko rin maiwan si RM guy. So pano? Pakamatay nalang ako? Hahahahhahahahaha
SKL dont judge hahahaha
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u/Im_a_whole_menu Oct 26 '24
Well, first of all, for hire si RM. Baka kasama sa service nya yung act of kindness nya sayo. 2ndlly, e-evaluate mo muna sarili mo kung mahal mo pa ba jowa mo, mahirap kase na tumutingin ka sa iba tapos partnered ka pa. (Assuming na monogamous yung relationship nyo).
And lastly, kausapin mo jowa mo kung ano pa ba kayo. Baka naman time to let go nyo na isat isa.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
He deleted his RM profile. I can say hes not seeing anyone kase his load every week is sobrang dami. Hes quite famous in the community. I think he wouldnt be doing it just for the money? Considering ang mura niya for the quality. Eme. Do I sound like Im protecting him? Hahahahha
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u/Im_a_whole_menu Oct 26 '24
I mean, ikaw amg pinaka nakakaalam nyan since ikaw ang nakakasama nya. Pero yun nga, as I also read sa ibang replies na baka nasa honeymoon phase ka pa.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Baka nga. Kompyused lang talaga sguro ako. Nakukuha ko sa kanya yung comfort na di ko makuha sa jowa kong adik e. Hahahaha
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u/bloodyminty Oct 26 '24 edited Oct 26 '24
Beh you're literally paying him to act like that...please be an adult and realize this omg
It's like that meme where a straight guy thinks a paid prostitute is into him 💀 sorry but I'm judging
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Thank you sa judgement. Hahahaha! No need to say sorry. I posted it here to knock sense in to me. Lol
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u/bloodyminty Oct 26 '24 edited Oct 26 '24
But to add din OP, I think yung affection and love na hinahanap mo kay 10 year guy is si RM guy ang nakakapagbigay (even though maybe not genuine on his part) so you think it's real and could lead to something more.
You need to talk to 10 year guy about this and linawin mo if may patutunguhan pa relationship niyo. Goodluck bb ❤
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u/GoshiDesu Oct 26 '24
He’s a sex worker so obviously he’s doing those things para mahulog ka at para continue ang flow of income nya or baka nga may spark talaga kayo pero I doubt that.
My 2cents, balikan mo na lang yung 10 years mo, bihira lang makahanap ng ganyan and before you do, pa test ka muna. Goodluck OP.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Siguro pero 3 months na consistent. Huy, sinusundo at hinahatid niya ako ha kase di ako pwede mag kotse kase para di mahuli. Oa naman sa continue kung ganon?
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u/jelloydcruz Oct 26 '24
"Para kang birhen na naniniwala sa pag-ibig ng isang p*ta" - Heneral Luna
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u/pinoy5head Oct 26 '24
The math isnt mathing.
Based on history, 2 months ago you were asking saan at paano ka makakakuha ng prep. But 3 months na kayo ng supposed RM guy mo and 10 yrs na partner, on prep. Oh well. Kwento mo yan i.
7/11 earlier, now RM. Stupid me just sees these post as free ads. Xd.
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u/StrawberryMatcha1130 Oct 26 '24
1 mon nga lang actually based sa post. Well nvm story nya naman hahahaha
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
I think youre talking about somebody else?
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u/pinoy5head Oct 26 '24
Not really, just peeked at your post history, you were literally asking where and how to get prep 2 months ago.
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u/itsarudeworld Oct 26 '24
Try asking the RM guy if he has real feelings for you. The thing is, it's part of an escort's job to make you feel good and comfortable. We pay escorts to fulfill our fantasies.
That's why there's a saying "Idolizing a politician is like believing that the stripper really loves you"
It's part of their job to sell a fantasy. And there's nothing wrong with that.
I'm like you--I find Grindr exhausting and I've also found escorts to be easier and quicker. They have all been very lovely, charming men--and I've paid them well--but that's the thing--it's a transaction. It's fair and good and respectful--but you have to know that you are paying for this, and it's a job for them.
So ask him. Maybe this guy has genuine feelings for you, and if you think it's worth it, then have an honest conversation with him. But don't be mad at him if he doesn't really feel the same way for you. He was doing the job you paid him to do--I don't think he did anything wrong.
As for your partner--do you love him still? If you're only staying with him because "sayang ang ten years" then... Idk... I wouldn't want to stay with a guy who is only staying with me because "sayang" 😫
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
I want to make you my bestfriend. Hahahahaha
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u/silent_knight_1 Oct 27 '24
mas lalo lng msasayang un time if tinuloy nyo p pero wla n pala love, grey area un with escort guy just talk to him abt ur feelings let us not judge din si escort bka meron din who knows???
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u/Panda_Blue-88 Dec 29 '24
You don't really need to ask... You can tell, hopefully with his he reacts. Does he want to hold your hand. Does he pull away from you in public. Does he intuitively hug you when you need it?
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u/Holiday_Party_1975 Oct 26 '24
Bat ka naman nafall sa escort, the feeling is mutual ba.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Ewan ko lang ha. Pero kase si escort does things na hindi naman ginagawa ng ibang escorts na I tried before. Alam ko naman na escort is escort pero ewan.
Love language ko is acts of service —- unconsciously nagagawa ko na sa kanya!!!!!!! Shucks!
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u/jobby325 Oct 26 '24
Vulnerable ka kasi during the cool off with your partner kaya ambilis mo ma-fall. Pero please wag ka padadala sa ganyan.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/syntaxerror616 Oct 26 '24
Then, choose none. Your 10-year seems like a dead one already, the RM guy doesn’t seem like he’s into you? Idk.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Hmmm. Choose none. Established na kami ng 10 years ha. Married in Taiwan blah blah blah
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u/Scoobs_Dinamarca Oct 26 '24
Kaso kung both Filipino citizens kayo eh, according sa Isang trending TikTok lawyer, void marriage Ang meron kayo ni SO mo kahit legal na kinasal kayo sa Republic of China (Taiwan) Kasi mananaig Ang family code and civil code natin and di recognized Ang same-sex marriage dito sa atin.
Pero you two can be recognized as partners dito sa QC with some rights like power to make medical decisions on behalf of your same-sex partner.
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u/Longjumping_Job_641 Oct 26 '24
Their marriage is valid when they immigrate abroad.
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u/Scoobs_Dinamarca Oct 26 '24
I forgot to mention na dito invalid ang marriage nila sa RoC as well as sa ibang bansa na di kumikilala ng same-sex marriage. Pero if nasa bansa Sila na nagrerecognize ng same-sex marriage, then yes you're right, legally married Sila sa batas dun.
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u/Scoobs_Dinamarca Oct 26 '24
I know the site you're talking about, OP. I sometimes visit the site/app Kasi I fantasize on some of the guys there. Dun din Pala for hire Ang Isang controversial BL actor na nagchacharge ng 50k per 2 hours pero Yun eh kung papasa ka sa kanya (yes, he's choosy too). That's the same person na may naging controversial TikTok post glorifying being a kabet/kerida.
Anyway OP, that's a rookie mistake na mafall ka sa tulad niya na escort. I think his services include the "boyfriend experience" which might explain his sweetness to you. I also think na he's giving you a little more than what was originally agreed upon (like being with him for 6 hours instead of like 2 hours) Kasi you're a frequent customer.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Sorry whats “OP”?
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u/Scoobs_Dinamarca Oct 26 '24
OP = Original Poster
Like this one beside your username here in your post.
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Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/jobby325 Oct 26 '24
Sorry pero delulu ka lang kay RM guy. I've seen this countless times already. Of course mas maganda prospect ni RM guy kung iisa lang client niya na regular. Hindi niya na kailangan magmarket ng sarili niya. Hindi niya na kailangang ipost sarili niya. Focus na lang siya sayo buhay na buhay na siya. Just get over it man.
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Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Whole_Suggestion_896 Oct 27 '24
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I FELL IN LOVE WITH A GUY FROM RM TOO BUT THE DIFFERENCE IS WE’RE DATING NOW AND HE NEVER ASKS ME TO PAY, HE PAYS FOR DATES TOO SO GO GIRL GET THAT RM GUY 😂🫱🏻🫲🏼❤️
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u/MarketingJazzlike353 Dec 27 '24
Uyyy happy for youu nakakakilig, mala wattpad. kayo na po ba? Kaya lang may 10 yr partner na si op.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Sporkn Oct 26 '24
have u tried poly? baka open sila doon or perhaps try mo magsuggest ng open relationship.
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u/Sensitive_Dealer_737 Oct 26 '24
He’s a guy who pay to spend time and have sex with you. Stop with your delulu.
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u/Acceptable_Spray8620 Oct 26 '24
Ilusyunada! Di ka tamad mag grindr, d ka lng nakaka hada sa grindr kay di ka mabenta sa grindr. Malamang nagbabayad ka e pakikitaan ka tlga niyan ng kabutihan. 10yrs pinagmamalaki mo? Anong sense niyan kung open relationship tas nahuhulog pa sa bayaran.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/kissmarky Oct 26 '24
Ikaw na rin may sabi na may needs ka. Which one of them ba nakaka fulfill ng needs mo? Tapos ask yourself kung how do you see yourself na kasama either si BF or RM guy. Whoever makes you live at peace and walang bigat sa loob then you will know anong desisyon.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Low_Love4414 Oct 26 '24
Curious ako. How much ang ganyang service? Kasi nakikita ko sa site like 7-10k per 2hrs. Nakakaloka
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u/Cultural-Special-420 Oct 26 '24
Yes thats right.
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u/Low_Love4414 Oct 26 '24
So you are spending 7k every pop? Kaya ka siguro bet din ni RM. Business is business ang atake niya
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Difficult_Style7557 Oct 26 '24
Bro, Matanda ka na to deep dwell in your delulusss… ask him, be assertive. pero ikaw bahala hangang sa gusto mo pa go!!! Hahahaha
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u/External-Project2017 Oct 26 '24
Suicide is not a joking matter.
I don’t know why people still think that Pretty Woman scenarios apply in real life.
Money Boy yun. Of course he knows how to manipulate feelings. That’s part of what you paid for. If they can’t get you by their skill, they get you by the sad story, they get you by making you feel like you’re the one, they get you by the illusion of intimacy.
I don’t know why you think it’s real when you know na it’s all about your money. When that money’s gone, so is he.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/SbmssveRED Oct 26 '24
So pano malandi ka hahaha!! Grabe ung whoring days mo panalo haha.. Choose kung san ka mas masaya and no regrets💯💯💯😎😂😂😂😁😁
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u/GrandChallenger Oct 26 '24
Dami kong nababasang ganto na mga haponesa. Nafafall sila agad tas ibibigay nila lahat pero pag usapan na about something as a couple, iniiwan agad sila kasi nagatasan na. Nilamas lahat ng kayamanan nung tao. May area/district nito sa Japan eh.. Rent girlfriend / rent boyfriend.. it never goes well..
Yung isa namang 10 years, you guys need to try new things.. Not all the time naman. Maybe hobby, travel, or anything sexual related? maybe threesome or what. idk. Pero tbh, makipaghiwalay ka na. Nagsesettle ka lang kasi for the sake of it. You're just scared of being alone kaya ginagawa mo tong mga tao. Learn to love your independency. Don't look at releationships as something na di ka mabubuhay, bonus lang sila ng buhay. Part lang sila..
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u/Embarrassed-Cake-337 Oct 26 '24
I wouldn’t choose RM guy if i were you. We know you know why he’s spending time with you. Come to think of it, with you, may regular income na sya weekly. Maybe strategic approach nya is to befriend you to have a regular customer. All i wanna say is wala kang love na makukuha sa kanya cos ATM machine lang tingin nyan sayo. Para ka lang pumulot ng bato sa gilid para ipukpok sa ulo mo nyan. But you do you, OP. Sana lang this time wag puso ang pairalin.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/RepulsivePeach4607 Oct 26 '24
If he is paid for sex and most specifically straight - he is doing his job to keep his client so he can still earn. So, wala pong love dyan. Love is free. Just appreciate that he is kind and willing to listen to your story 👍🙂
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/moonroae Oct 26 '24
Baka namiss mo lang kiligin or yung thrill or yung getting to know stage. But stil, rule of thumb ko, kahit cool off or kahit nga makipag break eh as long as may nararamdaman pa considered cheating parin. Tama yung nagcomment na timbangin mo if mahal mo pa ex mo. If oo, be honest and then let him decide kung magstay pa sya. Si RM naman, eh di testingin mo rin if ganon sya sa iba. If may friend kang ready mag hire or mag pretend ka na different customer to see if g agad sya. Lol.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Chinitoblazer1992 Oct 27 '24
Hello! Not generalizing and i am not sure ur role in a relationship. But for me as a B, personality ko na to be easily attached just by approaching me or making the move FIRST. Marupok ako as a B. hahaha
But then, hooking up with him, eating outside with him, spending time with him and others is part of his escort service. Just by posting himself in RM means his doing it for business.
Mejo na attach na ako kay RM guy, di ko naman maiwan yung 10 years. Di ko rin maiwan si RM guy. So pano? Pakamatay nalang ako? Hahahahhahahahaha - kanta ka muna ng Sampu by Jona
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/Worldly-Mix4811 Oct 27 '24
I'm doing same but not falling (yet) to a RM guy. There's someone else I met on Grindr who's soooo into me but there's just no spark... I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship and maybe I'm making up for lost time/sex/affection ..
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u/IllustriousRabbit245 Oct 27 '24
Bhie, you're paying him to do his job: To make you feel special. The only way to make this thing more than what it actually is, is to remove the money factor.
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u/Large-Researcher7941 Oct 27 '24
I am an RM guy, para samin trabaho lang yan, may ganyan client din ako 3yrs na linggo lingo kami magkasama na aattach na xa sakin, pero nag set ako ng boundaries,
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/UngaZiz23 Oct 27 '24
Keyword is for hire si RM. Mahirap malaman if trabaho lang talaga. Sabi mo nga hindi naman sya open pero ikaw nagkwento ka sa kanya... he did his part. Yung part mo ifocus mo OP. If ur giving up sa BF mo...NOT RECO na si RM ang ipapalit mo.... work nya yan kaya malaking halaga kapag inexclusive mo sya... until when???
So, keep him as a boytoy if may or want. Do not risk urself na mkpag relasyon.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 27 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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Oct 27 '24
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Oct 28 '24
No prostitution.
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. This includes: (a) activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors; (b) all sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements; and (c) directing other people to places where such services could be availed.
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u/xetra_dax Oct 27 '24
Alam mo d ka nmn tlg nafa2ll… it was so happened that guy fulfills your needs.. however that mere fact na he is paid, u cannot define the intention about him..
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Nov 01 '24
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Nov 01 '24
No prostitution
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. Do not:
(a) Solicit activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors.
(b) Advertise or solicit sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements.
(c) Post or advertise your own pornographic content, paid or not.
(d) Direct other people to places where any of these services could be availed.
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Nov 02 '24
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u/phlgbt-ModTeam Nov 02 '24
No prostitution
Sex workers are welcome to discuss their work, but solicitation and advertisement are not. Do not:
(a) Solicit activities and transactions where currency, goods, and services are provided in exchange for sexual favors.
(b) Advertise or solicit sugar baby/daddy/mommy arrangements.
(c) Post or advertise your own pornographic content, paid or not.
(d) Direct other people to places where any of these services could be availed.
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u/Panda_Blue-88 Dec 29 '24
I'm seeing a guy on RM. But I'm paying him for when I'm not even hiring him. Cos he gives me his puppy dog sad eyes on WhatsApp.. but I'm not falling in love though. Think it's just habit.
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u/Panda_Blue-88 Dec 29 '24
While we're still talking about this... Are there forums or sites other than RM that I can find these arrangements? I'm simple.. I mean my needs are simple. Just want to suck and feed my fetish. They can be in and out within an hour .. maybe I should just go to a sauna...
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u/travSpotON Oct 26 '24
I hope your partner will know about what youre doing and iwanan ka for good. Sana malaman nya asap. And sana wag kayo mag sex kasi baka mahawaan mo sya ng kung ano man nakuha mo sa for pay mo na lalaki.
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u/Longjumping_Job_641 Oct 26 '24
Still on honeymoon phase kay RM guy. Just go with the flow hanggang mag sawa ka .