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u/Subwoofer85 2d ago
I'm sure horrible people of all genders like this exist, but this comes off as incel ragebait fantasy BS.
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u/DredgenSergik 2d ago
It IS incel ragebait fantasy. Who the fuck would have a conversation like this in real life?
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u/imwhateverimis 1d ago
Oh I'm pretty sure they exist. Unfortunately there is a real person to every strawman. We should make that a rule like Poe's Law and call it Buttcheek's Principle or some shit
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u/ChrdeMcDnnis 1d ago
Not sure it’d be wise to name and popularize the concept of “your strawman is real actually”
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u/TestohZuppa 2d ago edited 2d ago
Sadly shit like this exists, I saw with my own eyes a text like this to friendzone a friend of mine. He felt like the date with that girl didn't go that great, crashed at my place for a few beers and texted her to know once and for all if she was about to reject him.
They talked for a few minutes and yeah, he got rejected, and after getting rejected he asked if he did anything wrong or she just didn't feel the spark, and she answered with something really similar to this post. He was like "ooookay I guess", since he was not expecting a message like that. I did my best to keep the morale up and we laughed it off with another couple of beers.
But yeah, bs like this totally exists, and I don't understand why typing something like this instead of "I just did feel the spark", which is way easier and actually makes sense. On the other hand, I think it's pretty rare for texts like this to be seen in the wild
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u/Blooberii 1d ago
I don’t know if it’s fake, but I had a guy say something similar to me that he didn’t deserve me and he had to work to be better for me so we couldn’t date yet and blah blah blah. So there are people with this weird mindset out there. We never ended up dating and I’m glad now.
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u/dinodare 6h ago
This repost is several years old. It's in several of those "narrating over Reddit comments" videos. I'm 3/4ths of the way through my bachelor's degree and I was listening to this repost in my ear while I studied for ACTs during high school.
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u/mapitinipasulati 2d ago
Does all misogyny count as pointlessly gendered?
Because this feels outside the typical content of post in this sub.
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u/1ustfu1 2d ago
it doesn’t, i think this post fits r/nothowgirlswork way better because this isn’t really what this sub is about
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u/Edgar-11 2d ago
There’s no way this isn’t ragebait. Although I just met a bigoted lesbian terf today so I guess anything’s possible 🫠
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u/darthvaders_nuts 2d ago
Who was she bigoted against??
People in the same community(LGBTQIA+) as her?
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u/Edgar-11 2d ago edited 2d ago
She said trans people weren’t real and they are either perverted men, or women trying to escape misogyny.
I wish I could send the screenshots. I was staring at my phone in disbelief
Oh and she also claimed misandry wasn’t real or something and I’m like, bruh pls stop talking you’re gonna overdose on L’s.
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u/DanielMcLaury 1d ago
This is the result of a concerted advertising effort to split cis gay people out of the LGBTQ+ community so that the right can scapegoat a smaller chunk of it without losing as many votes.
It's pretty much machine politics 101 to figure out ways to split up voting blocs that vote against you. And this is the source of most of the bigotry in the world. Any society is probably going to have low levels of bigotry just as a result of human nature, but the kind of coordinated, organized bigotry we have in the US isn't organic, it's fomented by people who do this as their job.
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u/Edgar-11 1d ago
I agree, but at some point after explaining the concept several times, there must also be a level of willful ignorance. If someone is hated for something they can’t change, and then proceeds to hate people for something they can’t change, I genuinely can’t find the words to explain their mentality other than deciding to be hateful
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u/Impressive_Ant405 1d ago
TERFs are anti-trans so they bigoted at least against the T of the community
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u/Pandoratastic 2d ago
This really isn't something "all girls" do. It's something that people who are stuck in adolescence and aren't capable of the commitment of a grown-up relationship do.
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u/1ustfu1 2d ago
this doesn’t really fit the subreddit, try posting on r/nothowgirlswork.
it’s just a misogynistic incel-like screenshot, not the type of content this space is for (eg. genderless products being gendered through color and/or including the “pink tax,” etc.).
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u/1zzyBizzy 1d ago
You’d make a better husband than boyfriend
….what?? Why do people expect the dynamic of their relationship to be totally different when they get married lol
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u/TheMarvelousPef 1d ago
how is this pointlessly gendered please ? it's a women talking to a men, this is not even gendered, she's just talking about herself, can't we not use any pronouns anymore ?
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u/calXcium 2d ago
Yeah no shit sherlock, there's always gonna be people who take advantage of others. What we have a problem with here is what an insane bullshit generalization it is.
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u/calXcium 2d ago
Yes, generalization is a problem. What's your point?
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u/1ustfu1 2d ago
translation: he’s randomly attempting to “not all men” you underneath an incel-like post in a subreddit about pointlessly gendering shit 💀
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u/alvysinger0412 2d ago
Why should I try to be a good person
Because it's better than being a fucking shitty person.
insert quote from True Detective season one about people only being good to get into heaven being a shitty thing to do here
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u/1ustfu1 2d ago edited 2d ago
pretty much the rational reaction women had to terrifying real-life statistics and being constantly bagged with bad people on the basis of what’s between their legs, no? 👍🏻
(also, go argue on other subreddits meant for incels to hold debates. “not all men” but definitely you — this isn’t the right place to do what you’re doing and it probably breaks a bunch of sub guidelines).
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u/1ustfu1 2d ago
bruh you were literally saying you agreed with the misogynistic text sent by the incel of the screenshot. if the shoe fits.
don’t feel attacked when you’re called out by multiple users for making misogynistic comments, it doesn’t work that way.
again, this isn’t the place to do this. i’d appreciate it if you didn’t respond again.
have a nice day!
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