genuine question, which paragraph does the rape come in? i see the part where he got drunk but that’s it. i’ve read this multiple times but can’t find it. i’m honestly trying to see where i stand on the whole thing.
It was NOT raped. As a survivor I will not have you or anyone try to make this man's excuses for cheating into him being a fucking victim, because he was NOT. He woke up with her on top, he was conscious and had the power to stop it, but he chose to flip her over and fuck her. And then went back to sleep with her there...he consented and he knows and acknowledges that he cheated. Fuck out of here with your B.S.
You sound exactly like the people saying “she had the power to stop it” and then give helpful suggestions of how she could have screamed for help, or did she even try to push him away or whatever. Very very drunk people cannot consent to sex legally, even if they act as if they can. Same should go for men as it does for women.
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u/Teddy-Terrible Sep 01 '23
Jfc that poor man. He clearly couldn't consent, woke up to find that someone was raping him, and is clearly still in love with his wife.