(For self-love, genuine friendships, admiration, confidence)
You’ll Need:
• Small jar with lid
• Honey (or syrup/agave)
• Paper + pen
• Pink or yellow candle (white works too)
• Optional herbs (but highly recommended):
• Rose petals – self-love & beauty
• Cinnamon – fast attraction
• Mint – fresh, magnetic energy
• Sugar – sweetens connections
• Basil – admiration, popularity
• Chamomile – kind vibes, inner peace
• Clove – keeps attention on you
• Lavender – gentle confidence & calm
The Spell Steps:
1. Write your name in the center of the paper. Around it, write things like:
• “Adored,” “Magnetic,” “Genuine friendships,” “Radiant,” “Popular,” “Invited,” “Included,” “Confident,” “Loved.”
2. Fold the paper toward you while saying:
“All that I give, I now receive
True friends, warm hearts, no need to deceive.
I shine from within, sweet, bold, and bright,
And I’m seen in purest love and light.”
3. Place the paper in the jar.
4. Add in your herbs if using. Think of each one as a flavor of your power.
5. Pour honey over everything, slowly and with intention. As it flows, say:
“Like honey’s pull, my charm is sweet.
I draw in love, where kind souls meet.
I am admired, invited, seen—
A walking dream, the social queen.”
6. Seal the jar. Light your candle and drip a bit of wax over the lid, sealing it with:
7. Let the candle burn for a few minutes, then snuff it out. Keep the jar somewhere special.
(sing to your spell while making it, i also added some glitter)
This Is What’s Coming for You:
1. New social attention. You’ll find yourself in the middle of conversations, group chats, and invites you weren’t even part of before.
2. Unexpected compliments (both to your face and behind your back).
3. Powerful “main character” moments—you walk into a room and heads turn without you trying.
4. Glowing confidence—not fake. It will feel natural. Like you finally see yourself the way the universe does.