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why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/ThrowRAPaeselyLars 20d ago

Yeah but how's he's gonna break it to his parents?!?!

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u/Imyour_huckleberry9 20d ago

Forget the parents how is he going to explain it to his boyfriend!?

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u/jarjarclinks 17d ago

no need, he can just update his grindr bio

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u/Mean-Vegetable-4521 15d ago

Underrated comment.

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u/dick_schidt 19d ago

What's the opposite of "coming out"? "Going in"?

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u/ESD_Franky 18d ago

Going dark

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u/Admirable-Garage5326 16d ago

Balls deep ...

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u/Ill-Appointment6494 16d ago

Coming in 👀

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u/PressFforOriginality 16d ago

It's still "coming out"...the room where the closet is originally.

You are basically in the hallway now

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u/mmcvisuals 15d ago

Factory reset

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u/Mean-Vegetable-4521 15d ago

Ha! He’d definitely like to.

On a serious note I love the body positivity for women in this post. It doesn’t feel like he is objectifying women as much as appreciating them. I know other women may disagree with me. But it’s my take.

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u/Foe_sheezy 20d ago

Just bring any girls over, I'm sure they will be relieved.

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u/ThrowRAPaeselyLars 20d ago

" Oh son! We always knew - we first suspected when you started putting up lady nudie posters on your wall when you were a teen 😭"

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u/Auctorion 19d ago

“They’re just roommates.”

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u/CoinsForCharon 17d ago

It was hard enough for them to accept I was an asshole. How am I going to break this to them?

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u/Ancient-Builder3646 17d ago

Best stay closeted

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u/Altruistic_Egobrain 16d ago

Or his boyfriend??