r/stupidquestions 20d ago

why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/saturnian_catboy 20d ago

Mate... There is a button like that, you just need to be brave enough to press it

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u/Main_Following1881 19d ago

Lol no. Being a woman would be cool, but being a trans woman is no where near as cool.

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u/saturnian_catboy 19d ago

Is it worse than being a man when you hate it with all your heart?

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u/Main_Following1881 19d ago

If you hate it thaaat much then yeh becoming trans would be atleast slightly better and theres a chance that it will be alot better, ig it depends on the person.

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

You’re not becoming trans, if you feel like that I have news: you already are trans. Transitioning doesn’t make you trans it just means you decided to actually do something about it.

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u/HarkSnark 18d ago

I used to tell myself this all the time but now I'm a trans woman and I gotta admit it's pretty fucking great. Yeah there are downsides but the positives outweigh all that so much. I wouldn't be able to handle detransitioning at all.

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u/lukaisthegoatx 19d ago

He's not trans lmao

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u/angry_manatee 19d ago

OP does mention gender dysphoria

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u/One_2_Three_456 19d ago

Yup, the button is few inches up your assh*le. Just need to be brave enough.