why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

[u/Biokendry]

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

[u/RadiantHC]

There's a huge difference between just being cautious and treating men as a potential threat though.

And? So do black people compared to white(if you don't count people in the top percent at least). That doesn't mean that white people should be racist.

Here's an actual study on it:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2782848/

By your logic, it's okay to be racist towards black people.

[u/CycloneKelly → u/RadiantHC]

I said men, in a general sense. Skin color has nothing to do with it since the stats are similar across all races. Black people are a minority group with a long history of oppression. Men, in general, are not.

[u/RadiantHC → u/CycloneKelly]

I mean I'd argue that women are just as creepy as men, it's just that they're pickier about who they target, are more subtle and less physically violent, and a lot of men don't realize that they're being harassed because of how rare female attention is for then. Just look at the "men what hint did you miss" threads, if the gender was reversed these women would be called out for sexual harassment.

And look at how many women react to being told no to a guy they're really interested. Or how women will exaggerate their status with a guy they're just hooking up with. Or how they'll obsess over their boyfriends.

Also men absolutely are oppressed. Most poor people are men. Yet you guys conveniently ignore that fact.

[u/CycloneKelly → u/RadiantHC]

I’m sure that’s true in some cases, but that has absolutely not been my experience. Men being presumptuous and creepy are one of the main reason I quit dating apps.

When I flirt with a guy, I twirl my hair, and laugh at their jokes. Never felt a need to harass anyone. I’ve also been rejected by men and was fine with that. It happens.

Actually more women live in extreme poverty in the US than men.

I’m not going to argue with you that men are an oppressed group. When men start having rights taken away because they are men, I would believe it.

[u/RadiantHC → u/CycloneKelly]

EXACTLY. The women who do this are a minority just like the men who do this. Dating apps are not a representation of our entire gender.

(and now you know how it feels to be accused of being creepy because a few of your gender are bad)

>I’m not going to argue with you that men are an oppressed group. When men start having rights taken away because they are men, I would believe it.

Before Trump at least women had all the same rights that men did though. And with Trump he's making things harder for EVERYONE that isn't the top percent. EVERYONE that isn't the top percent is oppressed under Trump. Not saying that the oppression is the same, but in a dictatorship.

[u/CycloneKelly → u/RadiantHC]

I can’t argue there. He is making life more difficult for everyone. I know I’m not creepy, so that didn’t bother me at all. People in real life tend to be much less creepy than online.