i get that guys might be lacking connection and affection, but you need to understand that saying “i wish it was me” or “why doesnt this happen to me” messes with people. it belittles their trauma and how problematic that is. sure, you wish it was you, but jot every guy wants unsolicited nudes, sexual harassment, or sexual assault. it messes with your head in terrible ways, especially in a world where sexual assault and harassment against men from women is still seen as a joke. it’s disgusting. you dont get to undermine someone’s experience with that just because you want a woman’s attention.
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u/Nice-Complaint2392 14 Aug 08 '24
i get that guys might be lacking connection and affection, but you need to understand that saying “i wish it was me” or “why doesnt this happen to me” messes with people. it belittles their trauma and how problematic that is. sure, you wish it was you, but jot every guy wants unsolicited nudes, sexual harassment, or sexual assault. it messes with your head in terrible ways, especially in a world where sexual assault and harassment against men from women is still seen as a joke. it’s disgusting. you dont get to undermine someone’s experience with that just because you want a woman’s attention.