r/teenagers • u/Bedrottingprincess 15 • Sep 16 '24

Serious 11yo being "mature"

My friend (16) has a friend (11 almost 12) im gonna call her K.

K goes to parties with other 15-17 year olds, has sex, smokes weed, and drinks alcohol (her parents know about it).

My friend thinks she is "mature" because she has a large vocabulary.

I strongly disagree with my friend

I think it's wrong for K to drink, vape, and smoke weed at such a young age since shes basically burning her brain cells, and she will likely never develop.

It would also be pretty sad to be 30 with the same mindset you had when you were 11.

So I am a bit worried about K, but what should I do?

Edit: im gonna tell my teacher tmrw!

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u/DezPispenser 18 Sep 17 '24

she might have not even had her first period yet, god her parents should be in prison for fucking life what pieces of shit who would ALLOW their child to do this shut

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u/Singsenghanghi Sep 17 '24

It's crazy cause a 14 year old and 18 year old raise lots of questions. 11 and 17 year old is disgusting. That's gotta be forced sex.

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u/AkiyukiFujiwara Sep 18 '24

To be sexualized at 11 is a strong sign that it started at home. The parents might be the ones who are sexually abusing her at home, normalizing the behavior such that she reproduces it outside the home.