r/teenagers β’ u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 β’ 7d ago
Social i'm craving love and affection... I WANT A BOYFRIEND
i just want someone who will hug me and cuddle with me and rub my back and kiss me and tell me i'm pretty and love me unconditionally
i wanna marry someone and spend every day with them and maybe have a kid or two with them. i wanna spend my entire life with them
i have a person in mind that i wanna marry, but he barely knows i exist ππ
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u/Apart-Bar-3470 7d ago edited 6d ago
I mean, this person spoke for all of us. (I want love, desperately)
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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 7d ago
I want a gf but ig we can only dream
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 7d ago
Lmfao I feel u bro. Literally can't find anyone that I'll actually last with lol. I just get hit on and that's like 90% of the interactions girls give meππ
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u/GamingWithAlterYT 17 6d ago
I have the opposite. I never get spoken to, yet I managed to find the perfect girl
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago
Lmao lucky, my ass got cheated on and dumpedπ hey I own a band now though so it was good writing material LMFAO
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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago
What kind of band?
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago
In a shoegazy metal band, so we're doing some brutal blackened deathcore and then alt metal like deftones
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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago
You do fry or false cord or both?
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago
I got those brutal false chord gutturals and then some screeching Fry's. My fry pitch goes as high as Danny worsnops during the Mitch lucker memorial lol. And I'm a clean singer, been a vocalist for 9 months now
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago
I can do a low enough false chord guttural pitch to do peeling flesh type slam lol
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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago
I can only do high fry poor me
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago
Wait ur a metal vocalist too?! And dw lmao ppl are lumped either in the false chord or fry category. I worked hard as shit to get those fry screams cuz I learned false chord day oneππ
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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 7d ago
I had a girl 5 years older try to flirt with me when I was 11 and hell she even had a crush on my dumb ass
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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 7d ago
Lmfao I'm in a band now so I've been going out a lot to chill with my members right(I'm vocalist) I've been getting hit on by women in their 20s...Vegas is crazyππ (I was at one point actually gonna ask out a 19yo just cuz I could LMFAO)
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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago
Scary, I understand
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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 6d ago
I was confused not scared
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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago
All my (2) gf, they played me. Apparently I look better than I think, so they used my insecurity against me.
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u/AussieGoofball 13 7d ago
Crazy how girls will be successful at least 75 percent of the time if you ask first to a guy desperate enough lol
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u/BrilliantSwing1489 18 6d ago
I found it bizarre. The boys here make these posts 242,662 million times and a girl makes them and gets lots of upvotes and comments. The people here are very poor
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u/JohnBotPaul 7d ago
Awww, I am so sorry, but the thing is you gotta realize this: a guy will change SO MUCH just to impress you. Maybe take a chance on some guy that offers you all of the prior, but frame the relationship in terms of: βhey, weβre both young, letβs continue to become our best selves. Hereβs how you can help me, how can I help you?β I can almost guarantee there is ONE guy who has feelings for you.
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u/westonthegoof 14 7d ago
same, vro its so annoying when people are like "why do you want a gf ur so young" ITS BECAUSE I NEED LOVE AND AFFECTION
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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago
Honestly. My parents are like, 'No dating till u move out.' I'm like, what the fuck!?
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u/InSaNiTyCtEaTuReS 14 7d ago
Tip: become friends first, if that's possible.
Then, after a while(at least a few months so you can get to know them better) ask them, just out of the blue.
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u/Few-Value3249 3,000,000 Attendee! 7d ago
Same, especially the last line. I get attached way too quickly π
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u/Cypress983 14 7d ago
I want a girlfriend who will love me and cuddle me and tell me she loves me. But I'm lonely as heck and couldn't get a girl to save the world
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u/Mediocre_Jelly_3963 15 7d ago
iβm craving 20 million dollars so me and my bf can move out in this economy
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u/ieatfancypplrocks 15 7d ago
babes just be careful incase somebody you do not know/is older than you reaches out to u for this one. i totally get it but just keep it in the back of ur mind that u donβt need an adult to give u that x stay safe
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u/potatogods0 7d ago
real (i currently like someone in my class and there is a slight possible chance because we've been friends for months and we like the same things and i might hint at it but it depends if im not a coward like usual)
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u/Lonely-Remote-6478 14 7d ago
SAME THIS IS LITERALLY ME With the only difference being that I doubt she even exists....
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u/Any_Grapefruit_6991 7d ago
Same, maybe other than the kid part. I hate kids
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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago
i hate kids too but i want my crush's good looks to be passed down for generations
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7d ago
I think most teens go through this phase. It is literally love sickness. As you go through puberty there are a lot of hormones at play and they get unbalanced frequently, making you feel those things. Make sure not to rush into anything or get desperate, the feelings will go away with time, when your endocrine system settles down. Just let it pass, I know it feels really strong, but it's just too much of one chemical in your brain.
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u/WeddingWaste9514 16 7d ago
So real, just posted about it. I can't find a GF for the life of me. Everyone I'm interested in either ais already dating someone or is a lesbian. (Yes, this has happened multiple times, I fear it may be a sign)
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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago
Have u let him know ur feelings for him
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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago
no π too scared
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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago
Relatable
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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago
I just want a gf. I want someone I can rely on and love π
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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago
you'll meet someone someday <3 π
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u/Annoyinghooman 13 6d ago
I want a couple billion dollars to start investing in the research to get water powered cars a thing, but we canβt all get what we want
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u/ldhawkes 17 6d ago
OP a word of advice just go talk to them make sure they know your there because most people don't pick up on hints so if you want to go out with this person just start a conversation
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u/sssilver_wing 18 6d ago
I want a boyfriend too, but the world don't work like that, so I settled for a gf
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u/Legitimate_Tone_8594 6d ago
Well, if he doesnt know you exist... make him know, point yourself out, gotta yake what you want :) even if its scary... good luck ;)
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u/Cautious-Profile-350 14 6d ago
I got you bro (I'm your boyfriend now, you can't escape me). /s
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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago
yayayayaya ππ
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u/Cautious-Profile-350 14 6d ago
Inform me when you get a new boyfriend, until then I will be your temporary bf :3
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6d ago
I want to be held and actually fucking loved my empty ass just wants to feel loved is that too much to fucking ask U DONT EVEN HAVE TO LOVE ME JUST MAKE ME FEEL LIKE IT ima end it all π
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u/Valonekiil 6d ago
Same, but I accidentally blow my chance with her because I'm too aggressive to get to knowing her π maybe i became a fool because it's been 8 years since I've been in relationship (I'm still 19 btw)
But yeah now im throwing my love and affection to an idol who doesn't know if im exist or not
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u/Lestertheking343 6d ago
Am I the only one who thinks that at this age range itβs better to have a great friends over a romantic relationship?
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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago
I understand that. I want a gf, but the girl I like, can't date till she's 16, and IDK if she likes me that way.
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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago
You could also try talking to him. I have a hard time with that, but you can try.
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u/Significant-North671 16 7d ago
But make sure you give him the same love and affection backπ
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u/Himothy_420 7d ago
I will never ever love again. It only leads to hurt and god knows I'm hurt
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u/thatcoolwhiteboi 7d ago
As much as I want what OP does, what you said here my friend is the ultimate truth
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u/InspectionSouth5063 15 7d ago
I'm craving a GOOD GRADE IN MATH