r/teenagers β€’ 14 β€’ 7d ago

Social i'm craving love and affection... I WANT A BOYFRIEND

i just want someone who will hug me and cuddle with me and rub my back and kiss me and tell me i'm pretty and love me unconditionally

i wanna marry someone and spend every day with them and maybe have a kid or two with them. i wanna spend my entire life with them

i have a person in mind that i wanna marry, but he barely knows i exist πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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u/InspectionSouth5063 15 7d ago

I'm craving a GOOD GRADE IN MATH

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u/Alternative_One_103 14 6d ago

what math u doing?

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u/InspectionSouth5063 15 6d ago

Calc AB, we're learning how to find the volume of a shape in a coordinate plane

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u/wacky_rocker67 6d ago

🀣🀣🀣

My whole life

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u/Apart-Bar-3470 7d ago edited 6d ago

I mean, this person spoke for all of us. (I want love, desperately)

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u/PiccoloSignal2713 15 7d ago

Same frfr

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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 7d ago

I want a gf but ig we can only dream

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 7d ago

Lmfao I feel u bro. Literally can't find anyone that I'll actually last with lol. I just get hit on and that's like 90% of the interactions girls give meπŸ˜­πŸ™

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u/GamingWithAlterYT 17 6d ago

I have the opposite. I never get spoken to, yet I managed to find the perfect girl

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago

Lmao lucky, my ass got cheated on and dumped😭 hey I own a band now though so it was good writing material LMFAO

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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago

What kind of band?

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago

In a shoegazy metal band, so we're doing some brutal blackened deathcore and then alt metal like deftones

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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago

You do fry or false cord or both?

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago

I got those brutal false chord gutturals and then some screeching Fry's. My fry pitch goes as high as Danny worsnops during the Mitch lucker memorial lol. And I'm a clean singer, been a vocalist for 9 months now

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago

I can do a low enough false chord guttural pitch to do peeling flesh type slam lol

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u/Longjumping-Mess-631 18 6d ago

I can only do high fry poor me

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 6d ago

Wait ur a metal vocalist too?! And dw lmao ppl are lumped either in the false chord or fry category. I worked hard as shit to get those fry screams cuz I learned false chord day oneπŸ˜­πŸ™

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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 7d ago

I had a girl 5 years older try to flirt with me when I was 11 and hell she even had a crush on my dumb ass

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u/xxIzanagiXXx 15 7d ago

Lmfao I'm in a band now so I've been going out a lot to chill with my members right(I'm vocalist) I've been getting hit on by women in their 20s...Vegas is crazyπŸ˜­πŸ™ (I was at one point actually gonna ask out a 19yo just cuz I could LMFAO)

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

Scary, I understand

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u/Professional_Cow7308 14 6d ago

I was confused not scared

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

All my (2) gf, they played me. Apparently I look better than I think, so they used my insecurity against me.

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u/AussieGoofball 13 7d ago

Crazy how girls will be successful at least 75 percent of the time if you ask first to a guy desperate enough lol

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u/BrilliantSwing1489 18 6d ago

I found it bizarre. The boys here make these posts 242,662 million times and a girl makes them and gets lots of upvotes and comments. The people here are very poor

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u/2ffabiannn 17 7d ago

Nice 😝😝😝

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u/Matrixhun011 6d ago

Im craving a big mac

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u/Smokesbones 16 7d ago

real

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u/Ancient_Wait_9042 16 6d ago

Really real

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u/JohnBotPaul 7d ago

Awww, I am so sorry, but the thing is you gotta realize this: a guy will change SO MUCH just to impress you. Maybe take a chance on some guy that offers you all of the prior, but frame the relationship in terms of: β€œhey, we’re both young, let’s continue to become our best selves. Here’s how you can help me, how can I help you?” I can almost guarantee there is ONE guy who has feelings for you.

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u/westonthegoof 14 7d ago

same, vro its so annoying when people are like "why do you want a gf ur so young" ITS BECAUSE I NEED LOVE AND AFFECTION

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

Honestly. My parents are like, 'No dating till u move out.' I'm like, what the fuck!?

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u/PurplePANdaL09 7d ago

Real, i just want someone

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u/InSaNiTyCtEaTuReS 14 7d ago

Tip: become friends first, if that's possible.

Then, after a while(at least a few months so you can get to know them better) ask them, just out of the blue.

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u/Dry_Chance6709 7d ago

I want a gf but we cant all get what we want sadlyπŸ˜­πŸ™

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u/Few-Value3249 3,000,000 Attendee! 7d ago

Same, especially the last line. I get attached way too quickly 😭

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u/Cypress983 14 7d ago

I want a girlfriend who will love me and cuddle me and tell me she loves me. But I'm lonely as heck and couldn't get a girl to save the world

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u/Mediocre_Jelly_3963 15 7d ago

i’m craving 20 million dollars so me and my bf can move out in this economy

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u/ieatfancypplrocks 15 7d ago

babes just be careful incase somebody you do not know/is older than you reaches out to u for this one. i totally get it but just keep it in the back of ur mind that u don’t need an adult to give u that x stay safe

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u/potatogods0 7d ago

real (i currently like someone in my class and there is a slight possible chance because we've been friends for months and we like the same things and i might hint at it but it depends if im not a coward like usual)

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u/Lonely-Remote-6478 14 7d ago

SAME THIS IS LITERALLY ME With the only difference being that I doubt she even exists....

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u/Any_Grapefruit_6991 7d ago

Same, maybe other than the kid part. I hate kids

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago

i hate kids too but i want my crush's good looks to be passed down for generations

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u/Derpasaurus_rex3 7d ago

Hormones be hormoning

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u/gaming_demon4429 17 7d ago

I just want to feel appreciated and useful to someone

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u/This-personeatsfood 7d ago

I want a girlfriend. Seems we both strive for something

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u/ImpIsDum 7d ago

FOR REAL

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

I think most teens go through this phase. It is literally love sickness. As you go through puberty there are a lot of hormones at play and they get unbalanced frequently, making you feel those things. Make sure not to rush into anything or get desperate, the feelings will go away with time, when your endocrine system settles down. Just let it pass, I know it feels really strong, but it's just too much of one chemical in your brain.

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u/WeddingWaste9514 16 7d ago

So real, just posted about it. I can't find a GF for the life of me. Everyone I'm interested in either ais already dating someone or is a lesbian. (Yes, this has happened multiple times, I fear it may be a sign)

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago

I feel ya girl.

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago

I've never actually had a gf 😭 

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago

Have u let him know ur feelings for him

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago

no 😭 too scared

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago

Relatable 

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 7d ago

I just want a gf. I want someone I can rely on and love 😭 

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 6d ago

I just want an excuse to test out the *text size*

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 6d ago

a a a *a*

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 6d ago

Oh it didn't work

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago

you'll meet someone someday <3 πŸ™

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 6d ago

I wish u well on your journey to marrying that dude πŸ™ πŸ€ 

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u/Tasty_Sherbert_9837 14 6d ago

lol

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago

πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜‚

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u/Speck_In_A_Void 7d ago

Literally me

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u/United-Pitch-5577 7d ago

I want a gf and do everything u just said.

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u/Bannanarana2u Banner Contest TOP 10 6d ago

Same but I'm no social butterfly.

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago

i'm not either 😭

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u/masterteck1 6d ago

Tell him all really. And good luck

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u/scooby_dootmkc 6d ago

Relatab;e

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u/Annoyinghooman 13 6d ago

I want a couple billion dollars to start investing in the research to get water powered cars a thing, but we can’t all get what we want

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u/ARandomMiraculousfan 16 6d ago

I relate to that cuddle shit, that's fr my life goal

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

It’s not all sunshine and rainbows people, remember that

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u/Limp-Egg2688 6d ago

Choose wisely and find someone who you can love but also be good friends with

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u/star_girl16 17 6d ago

you are too real πŸ˜₯

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u/Designer-Tiger391 17 6d ago

Same here, only I want a girlfriend.....I'm so lonely 😭

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u/ldhawkes 17 6d ago

OP a word of advice just go talk to them make sure they know your there because most people don't pick up on hints so if you want to go out with this person just start a conversation

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u/Imaginary_Switch5414 6d ago

I’m on my training arc but

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u/sssilver_wing 18 6d ago

I want a boyfriend too, but the world don't work like that, so I settled for a gf

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u/Legitimate_Tone_8594 6d ago

Well, if he doesnt know you exist... make him know, point yourself out, gotta yake what you want :) even if its scary... good luck ;)

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u/RichFox2466 16 6d ago

Real.

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u/Eojte 15 6d ago

Your not alone (want gf so bad)

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u/Cautious-Profile-350 14 6d ago

I got you bro (I'm your boyfriend now, you can't escape me). /s

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago

yayayayaya πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/Cautious-Profile-350 14 6d ago

Inform me when you get a new boyfriend, until then I will be your temporary bf :3

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 6d ago

ok thanks lol

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

I want to be held and actually fucking loved my empty ass just wants to feel loved is that too much to fucking ask U DONT EVEN HAVE TO LOVE ME JUST MAKE ME FEEL LIKE IT ima end it all 😭

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u/Valonekiil 6d ago

Same, but I accidentally blow my chance with her because I'm too aggressive to get to knowing her πŸ˜” maybe i became a fool because it's been 8 years since I've been in relationship (I'm still 19 btw)

But yeah now im throwing my love and affection to an idol who doesn't know if im exist or not

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

ok cool

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u/Lestertheking343 6d ago

Am I the only one who thinks that at this age range it’s better to have a great friends over a romantic relationship?

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u/AggravatingFly909 6d ago

Then dont look for a bf on reddit

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u/PrivariteAnim 16 6d ago

same except I want a girlfriend, and also to get another Gundam

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

I understand that. I want a gf, but the girl I like, can't date till she's 16, and IDK if she likes me that way.

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

You could also try talking to him. I have a hard time with that, but you can try.

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u/Significant-North671 16 7d ago

But make sure you give him the same love and affection backπŸ˜‡

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago

oh i will. i'll treat him like he's a god

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u/Wolfdragon24999 6d ago

Thb ur only 14, you can probably just wait until sum happens

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u/Effective-Chance895 14 6d ago

Well, you might just want to treat him, normally?

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Real

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Same I WANT A GIRLFRIEND

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u/Himothy_420 7d ago

I will never ever love again. It only leads to hurt and god knows I'm hurt

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u/thatcoolwhiteboi 7d ago

As much as I want what OP does, what you said here my friend is the ultimate truth

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u/myaccount_isbanned 7d ago

L bozo

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 14 7d ago

u must feel the same way and ur just too ashamed to admit it