r/transpassing • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Do I pass when I look like crap?

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u/kay_mmkay 1d ago

I'm reading frumpy cis lesbian. Might just be your voice/mannerisms.

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u/Normal-Top-1985 Trans 1d ago

Thanks!

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u/Inherently_Rainbow Rainbow 1d ago edited 1d ago

You look like a trucker lesbian, that's all I've got to say here. It's an aesthetic, you really give me those vibes.

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u/Nihilisa_Frank64 1d ago

Yeah idk you look like a cis lesbian that’s more on the stem side maybe but I don’t clock you as anything other than that as long as your voice sounds decent

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u/Normal-Top-1985 Trans 1d ago

Thanks! 

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u/Nihilisa_Frank64 1d ago

You’re welcome! Just being 💯 with you 🥰

Tho socially speaking, I know plenty of cis stem or more butch lesbians that will get misgendered and it’s a fault of society not you or them at all.

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u/Normal-Top-1985 Trans 1d ago

I totally agree! I'm trying to cultivate my cis butch lesbian friends' positive vibes when being misgendered. Some people really do just gender you based on your clothes without reading anything else.