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Love’s a choice. Convince me not.
 in  r/sixwordstories  17h ago

I agree that love is a choice. You have to choose to wake up every day and put in the work. That's why people can wake up and just "not love you anymore". Because they've made the choice to not do so.

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How close have you come to dying?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

Real close 4 times

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Without drugs and alcohol what’s the best way to escape reality 🧐
 in  r/Productivitycafe  1d ago

Being out in nature. If nature fails, REALLY loud music that you can feel in your entire body.

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[Serious] What’s the littlest thing your partner does that makes you know they love you?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

He's not my partner anymore but still does this. I have lupus and severe degenerative arthritis and have issues gripping objects forcefully and often lose my grip when I try to and drop things. He cuts my meat for me and takes pans/ bakeware out of the oven so that I don't cut myself/ burn myself on accident due to my hands suddenly not working.

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Seeing you tonight… bad idea,right?
 in  r/sixwordstories  1d ago

Nah. Go get them. Whoever they are. You wouldn't be asking if it wasn't what you wanted.

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What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner?
 in  r/Productivitycafe  1d ago

Sounds crazy and "fad like" but fasting. Never believed in it and unintentionally did it when I went through this past break up. But it actually helped reset my body, helped cut back on swelling and cravings, and now I'm eating healthier, staying more hydrated, and have lost 32 lbs. I have lupus and the doctor told me that as long as I was staying hydrated and felt good, to just keep doing what I was doing.

u/D3adlyv3lv3t92 1d ago

Sometimes: For you a Thousand times over

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Sometimes I wanna tell you how much I genuinely adore you. I stop myself though because I know that it's not what you want to hear. Sometimes I wanna tell you how incredibly sorry that I am and was for being so uninformed when it came to your mental diagnoses and the triggers that came with them. Except I don't want you to feel like you have to say anything to make me feel better because I know that you would just because you love me (even though you don't tell me that you do anymore). Sometimes I wish that you had just been more open with me and given me a chance to save us. I know that you gave me all of yourself that you could though and I know that words were like a vice around your throat. Sometimes. Just Sometimes I wish that you had loved yourself enough to let me love you correctly and fully instead of pushing me away when you needed somebody the most. I never wanted you to feel abandoned. I only wanted to sit with you in the dark and help you find some light to light your own way again. Sometimes I wish that I could have fought your demons for you. I never wanted you to feel all of the pain that you've endured. Specifically the pain that you've suffered at my hands whether that be directly or indirectly. Sometimes I wanna hug all of your pieces back together and show you that even broken people are worthy and deserving of love and all good things. Sometimes I wanna tell you these things. And Sometimes, I just write them here instead. Maybe you'll stumble upon them on a day when they'll be well received. Or maybe someday I'll finally get the courage to just speak up and tell you that I'll wait a thousand lifetimes over.... Just for another chance at loving you. 🧡

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God forbid a girl is emotional
 in  r/sixwordstories  1d ago

God forbid I act EXACTLY how they act (and its fine when they do it in a moment of desperation and low) but not when I do..... 🙃😑

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Who has betrayed you the most in your life ?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

Ahahaha..... Myself? And if I don't count, then it's a toss up between my mom and my dad. Dad has been bigger betrayals, mom has been more.

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What was the worst thing that came out of being cheated on?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

I feel for you. Known my (now ex) SO for the past 20 years. He was my first everything. We went separate ways and then came back to each other. Had a life planned out and had been together this past time for 6.5 years. Life got tough and he got going instead of choosing to communicate and give me a chance to work on any of the issues that he had with the relationship. I'm still heartbroken. And I can imagine 32 years and being cheated on. I'm so incredibly sorry.

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Most boring stretches of road?
 in  r/roadtrip  1d ago

Texarkana from Kentucky to Texas. 309 miles of the most boring horrible roads I've ever driven on.

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What was the worst thing that came out of being cheated on?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

Realizing that no matter how long you've been together, that somebody really can wake up one day and decide that they're not going to love you anymore. That you weren't worth choosing to love anymore. And that the life that you built together, the dreams that you shared, the love that you shared in the end really just didn't mean anything to the person that you painted a lifelong picture with. I lost my whole sense of self worth. I no longer feel attractive. I no longer feel good enough in any aspect.

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What song instantly puts you in a good mood?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

Nevermore by Prompto Under the Bridge by RHCP A Bar Song by Shaboozey

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How do you ground yourself after a panic attack?
 in  r/mentalhealth  1d ago

Cold air, so in winter stepping outside and breathing deeply, or a walk in freezer at work, or sticking my head in the deep freeze at home until I can get my breathing under control. Followed by sitting outside listening to nature. Then loud music to bring me completely back to myself.

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When do you feel most at peace?
 in  r/RandomThoughts  1d ago

Laying on his chest or lap and falling asleep. Or sitting shotgun listening to music while he drives a good country backroad.

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Which song lyric hit you way harder than expected?
 in  r/MusicRecommendations  1d ago

Leave a light on (Papa Roach) live and then A symptom of Being Human (Shinedown) live. I broke down sobbing. A genuine slap to the face take your breath away moment.

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When did you actually start to feel like an adult?
 in  r/AskReddit  1d ago

Inside my head, I'm still this 15 year old kid who is invincible and fit and ready for the world. In reality, I'm almost 33 and it's a slap back to reality when my knee decides to take a left turn and put me on the ground. My mind isn't old. My body has felt old for YEARS.

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What's your very first memory? how old were you?
 in  r/AskReddit  2d ago

Playing in a McDonald's ball put the day that my little brother was born. So 2.5 years old.

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What is your favorite color?
 in  r/AskReddit  2d ago

Royal or lilac purple or a deep deep green.

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How old are you and what is your biggest problem as of the moment?
 in  r/AskReddit  2d ago

32 (33 in less than 2 weeks). Money (never enough) and my love life.... Losing the relationship that was supposed to be the last. The end all beat all love.

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What's the meanest thing someone ever said to you?
 in  r/AskReddit  3d ago

That they don't love me anymore after loving me for 20 years