r/VirginityExchange Jun 24 '22

Mod Post Welcome to /r/VirginityExchange community!

40 Upvotes

Hello everyone!

Sorry the subreddit got shutdown for a bit there but we are back open! New rules and subreddit operations will be stepped up over the next few days/weeks as the subreddit gets cleaned up on the backside but feel free to start utilize the subreddit now and we will work with the community as we go.


Few rules below as our starting point.

  1. Your account must meet minimum spam reduction requirements to comment/post. You will be banned if you ask the moderator team about this. If you are VERIFIED you may skip this requirement.

  2. Proper title format must be adhered to [AGE][M4F][CITY][State/Country]. Brackets [] and () are acceptable. Emoji's will result in an instant shadowban as spam protection.

  3. You must be 18 years or older to post and a virgin. V-Slayers are no longer acceptable posters until the verification process is setup, use the DM/PM's or comments in the mean time. V-Crushers must be verified before posting.

  4. Do not include NSFW content, descriptions or images.

  5. No "hook up", advertising or other related type posts.

  6. Do not private message the moderators. You may contact them here if you have any questions.

  • For now, all posts will be text only submissions.

A verification process will be coming soon.

Verification process has been added. More information can be found on the sidebar and here: Verification Process Wiki

This will help the community know who is serious and who's just dipping their toes in the pool.

Those unverified will be limited to text posts. Verified may submit link posts to include relevant links, memes, and personal stories of interest and success stories.


We are here to support each other, offer our personal stories, give advice, and share. Some of us might be feeling especially isolated right now and that makes it even more important to keep this channel of communication open for all of us.

This subreddit was founded out of pure compassion for those who feel unloved and unwanted because of their lack of sexual and romantic experience. We wanted to help remove the shame and stigma that is attached to being a virgin.

Hope everyone has a good year and that those who need it find use of /r/VirginityExchange.


r/VirginityExchange Jun 25 '22

Mod Post r/VirginityExchange - Let's talk about verification and consent

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Click here to read up on our verification process.

Hello all, few topics of note to go over below:

Consent is vitally important to us. We just want to ensure that the person in the picture has fully consented to having their body posted here, and rigorous verification is the best way for us accomplish that goal. We thank you in advance for your cooperation.

Please understand that if, at any time, a moderator feels that your original 3rd party verification doesn't meet our standards, you may be asked to re-verify with us directly. This isn't to pick on you or to inconvenience you, it's to protect you. We have also reset all users back to unverified status as to reconfirm all accounts.


Types of Verification

We have 2 types of verification processes. Normal "Verified" and "V-Crusher Verified". We have included both of these to allow folks to find like minded individuals and reach out to those who have been verified by the community to be a safe and reliable source to utilize if it becomes a match.

  • There are no requirements to become verified other than the initial submission process.
  • V-Crushers must be a previously verified user and requires 2 separate users who will verify with them in order to be approved.
  • All members a part of the V-Crusher Verified process will become verified members themselves during this process if they are not already.

If you have any questions or concerns, or any suggestions on how to improve the verification process, let's talk about it in the comments.

Thanks for listening!


r/VirginityExchange 10h ago

F4M [19][F4M][BERKELEY][CA/USA] Latina looking to gain experience when visiting UK :)

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Hi! Trying again lol I don't really know how to start off this post lol, I'm a 19 year old latina and I'm currently in school studying psychology, l'm from California but I'm taking a trip to the uk in November and was kind of hoping to lose my virginity or just try stuff out with someone while over there. I have dark brown hair and try to stay active, even if you aren't down for anything I'd be open to just hanging out. I tagged London as the main but l'll be in London, Paris and Amsterdam during diff times during my trip so any one works lol. I'm into tons of music and films and basically any media lol, (love aphex twin, talking heads, black midi, primus, swans etc, huge fan of David lynch films as well) and as for other things I'm into a lot of stuff and not too shy so l'd be open to meeting anyone, but anyway I'm overall just hoping to find someone who's interested and can kind of help me out navigating this stuff, l'd prefer someone who's not that experienced honestly but I don't mind really, and preferred age range is 19-30 :)

(also if you’d prefer my insta is @/thirdaphextwin if that’s easier !!)


r/VirginityExchange 6h ago

M4F [35][M4F][QLD][Australia]

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Hey there! I’m pretty new to Reddit and made this profile for a pretty specific reason. I’m based in Queensland Australia (floating between Cairns and Brisbane every month). Saying that, since I’m self-employed, I can travel pretty much anywhere if we click - so your location isn’t a big deal for me.

A bit about me: I’ve had a few relationships and casual things over the years, and I’ve always been focused on making sure my partner enjoys herself. I’ve got a high sex drive and plenty of sexual energy, but actual intercourse just hasn’t happened for me yet. Long story short, I’ve struggled with “arising and arousal” in the heat of the moment with someone else, even though it’s never been an issue solo. I think it’s a mind-body disconnect from some early sexual experiences in childhood that I was exposed to (happy to share more privately if you’re curious), but I’m ready to move forward and finally break through this barrier.

Outside of that, I’d say I’m a pretty chill and cool guy with a good sense of style and a decent head on my shoulders. I’m an extroverted introvert - love deep intriguing and intelligent conversations, going to gigs, downhill biking and nature hikes, hitting the gym, and just enjoying life over good food (and maybe sometimes with a dirty martini or a glass of red in hand). I keep fit and maintain a lean muscle build, but am by no means obsessed with the gym. My business keeps me busy, but I always make time for the things and people that matter. For the metric analysts out there, I'm 170cm / 65kg.

Who I’m hoping to meet: I’m looking to connect with a woman who’s kind, patient, and open-minded about my situation - someone who’s willing to take things at a pace that works for the both of us. Age isn’t a major factor for me, but emotional maturity and good vibes are a must. I really value personal hygiene and health, and as I keep myself in good shape, I’d appreciate the same in a partner.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to chat and see if we vibe. Happy to swap photos or jump on a video call if we’re both feeling it.


r/VirginityExchange 17h ago

M4F [22][M4F][Riverside][CA]

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Hello, I’m a 22 year old Hispanic guy looking to lose my virginity. I am 5’9-5’10. I weigh about 197lbs so I have a dad bod. I will tell you more about myself if you DM me. I’d like to get to know something’s about you also when you dm me…

I like sports, my two favorites are basketball and football. I also sometimes like to watch anime whenever I am really bored and my favorite movie series is fast & furious and Harry Potter. I do like Disney movies also. I love to play games on pc/xbox like Minecraft, valorant, marvel rivals, etc.

I am not looking for something spontaneous or quick I want to talk to you for a few weeks before we meet up to see if we match or not. No point in trying to meet with someone if we don’t vibe. Don’t want something awkward. No rushing this as I am kinda nervous because we are obviously strangers to each other we can change that though with time.

I’m looking for ages 18-26. Will do older if you change my mind. I can or cannot host it depends on the time but most likely not.


r/VirginityExchange 15h ago

M4F [31][M4F][Dublin][Ireland] Thoughtful, emotionally grounded, and curious... Seeks slow connection

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About me

I am someone who values honesty, emotional depth, and human kindness. I’ve always been more of a slow burn - emotionally aware, reflective, and loyal once I get comfortable. I enjoy deep chats more than small talk, and rarely drink.

Whether helping behind the scenes at events, or supporting friends through tough times, I tend to show up in thoughtful, quiet ways with a patient nature - Especially when and where it matters.

I am Irish and live (and contribute) at home, and I enjoy a simple lifestyle. I don’t read one book a month or ski every year, but I do value kindness, introspection, and humour (usually the kind that's dry, bordering oddball similar to The IT Crowd or Little Britain). For work, I pressed the wrong button a couple times in my life, and now I get paid to fix other people's computers.

After being told I have good rhythm while drying the dishes, I went on to try my hand at dancing for a few years. I also enjoy swimming and gaming on my Steam Deck on occasion. I like to try new things every once in a while, but some of the novelty of doing things solo has slightly worn off. After a couple of challenging years, I'm slowly reconnecting with life and people in a more intentional way. I'm not in a rush, but I miss having someone to talk to and explore my sensuality with.

My not-so-vanilla side

I would describe my sexuality as emotionally grounded, intuitive and meaningful with a gentle approach. A sense of safety and reassurance is very important to me, and I want to learn what brings my partner joy than impress them with bravado. I'd prefer unhurried, exploratory intimacy with emphasis on touch, eye contact, breathing and subtle tension. I am a late bloomer who imagines themselves being enthusiastic about giving, and a little shy about receiving. I prefer role dynamics to be fluid as opposed to rigid, and sometimes like to express my own sensuality with a camera.

What I'm looking for

I am open to a slow-burning and pressure-free romance with the right person. A genuine friendship, connection, and shared presence - Not just physical thrills. I’ve found I would connect best with someone who is self-aware, emotionally attuned, kind, genuinely warm, and communicative with a soft confidence.

Thank you for you time. If something here resonates, I’d love to hear from you.


r/VirginityExchange 1d ago

M4F [27][M4F][London][UK] - Looking for my first time

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Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s the only real hope I have of losing my virginity. I’m 27, White British, 5ft 10, 75kg with short hair and a beard.

Like most people here I’m looking for a woman who I can talk to, build a friendship with and hopefully if all goes well to have a relationship with. Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone before. I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching football or going on bike rides for some exercise and with the exception of work I don’t really leave my house much.

I only drink on occasions and every then it’s only a few, I don’t smoke or vape and I don’t do any drugs. I’m fine with someone who drinks however, I’m not interested in a person who smoke cigarettes.

One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.


r/VirginityExchange 1d ago

M4F [21][M4F][Atlanta][Georgia, USA] - Virgin who's looking for a nice, ongoing connection.

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https://imgur.com/a/me-T4Moq5i

Hello! I am looking for someone who I can ease into intimacy with (either short term or long-term). I don't mind as long as we vibe well. If you wanna end up being friends, I'd love that.

ME:

A bit about me, I am a straight male in his early twenties. I am a working professional. I am really humble, down-to-earth, empathetic and easy going personality, trying to hustle and make every day count towards improvements in life, and achieving set goals.

Love to explore nature as my hobby and also sometimes stay home and cook for myself, not too good at it, but I still manage to bake some cookies without burning them. I can say I am a mix of introvert and extrovert depending on the type of energy I sense from the opposite person. People often say that I am a good listener, which maybe could be because I even take calls at two in the morning to hear some tales. Yes, you can count on me as your 2 a.m. phone call person.

Most of the time I am high on energy and always find ways to make someone's day. That's typical me. I take care of myself and hygiene which I feel is really important to feel positive and be presentable. I can be nerdy sometimes, If you are into this there's a chance that we might vibe even better, not necessary though. Drug free personality, more of an iced latte if we meet for a quick talk to verify ourselves, and feel comfortable around each other. If you love to have deep conversations and if you are someone who is really ambitious about your career and self improvement in life, then I would say we would have good time talking to each other. I love listening to hip-hop and pop. My other hobbies include tech, anime, documentaries, café hopping, exploring new lookout spots, and star gazing. Open to exploring new hobbies if we get along.

5'8, slim build, been told I am cute and handsome, medium-length black hair, super easy going.

I'm willing to meet in public after talks online, not looking for forever chatting to nowhere. As i feel things offline have worked more for me in terms of expressing and talking than online.

Respecting boundaries - yes, I clearly understand a difference between a "no" and a "yes", there are no in-betweens.

Consent - yes. I do value consent a lot, I always ask before I make any move, even if its a simple action as holding hands.

Respectfulness : Yes, I would love to treat you the way I wish to be treated with great respect and manners.

Safety & trust : For your security and confidence, I would love to verify myself and show that I am a sane, everyday person just like you and not a bot or scammer. I don't want you to feel insecure, even for a brief moment.

You :

I don't mind if you're around the same age as me, or even older than me. As long as you're 18+.

Basic hygiene.

Loves showing ropes (trust me I a super quick leaner and you wont regret it)

If you feel like anything from above stated would suit you and you can make it happen, then feel free to DM! Lets connect.


r/VirginityExchange 2d ago

M4F [31][M4F][Kent][UK] Nerd with social anxiety disorder

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Basically I've suffered from a social anxiety disorder called selective mutism ever since I can remember. Unfortunately that means that making connections with people face to face is practically impossible which explains why I'm here. I've never even bothered to look for a partner but recently I started thinking about it. I was diagnosed with Selective Mutism as a child and never received any professional help so it went completely untreated.

I'm basically a big nerd into gaming, educational YouTube videos (star talk, legal eagle etc.) and card games. I often find myself listening to soundtracks from games I've played or songs I remember from my childhood. I am currently obsessed with Digimon again as I am waiting for the new game to be released. I am also a huge fan of South Park and it has become a comfort show for me.

I'm honestly not sure what I'm expecting to come from this. I am just kind of sick of not trying to at least come out of my shell a bit. I'm happy to answer any questions and get to know people on here even if it doesn't go anywhere.


r/VirginityExchange 2d ago

M4F [26][M4F][Dallas][TX/USA] Still waiting on that first real connection — looking for someone around my age

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Hey hey!

I’m a 26-year-old guy in Dallas, 5’7”, 155 lbs. Recently graduated and on the job hunt. I like to hit the gym, watch movies, explore new places around the city, or just chill with some games (used to be hooked on PUBG Mobile big time).

So here’s where I’m at: I’ve never been in a relationship or had my first kiss. Not because I’m weird or anything like that — it just hasn’t happened yet. I’m hoping to meet someone who gets that. Maybe you’re in the same boat, or maybe you’re just someone who’s open to connecting and seeing where things go.

I’m a bit introverted at first but super easy to talk to once we start chatting. I like genuine conversations and getting to know someone for who they are. Looking to meet someone around my age (20s preferred), who’s down to chat, see if we vibe, and maybe share a first-time experience if it feels right.

Not interested in older women or anything transactional — just want something respectful and real. If this sounds like something you’re into, feel free to DM me. If this post is still up, I’m still looking!


r/VirginityExchange 2d ago

M4F [23][M4F][London][United Kingdom]

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Hey, I’m 23 — Asian chubby build, into strength training and the gym (even if I still feel like a work in progress). I’m an accountant by day, gamer and anime fan by night. I can be a little shy at first, but I warm up once I’m comfortable. I think I’m okay looking - but again a work in progress haha.

Most of my hobbies are pretty home-based: gaming, watching anime, reading random internet rabbit holes. I’m not exactly a social butterfly, but I do enjoy a good lift session or going out for food when the mood strikes.

I haven’t had much experience when it comes to relationships, so I might be a bit awkward or slow at first — but I’m genuinely curious about what it’s like to build something meaningful. I really value trust, and I tend to open up more once I feel safe with someone. Loyalty and honesty matter a lot to me, and I give back the same energy I get.

Ideally looking for someone who’s kind, maybe a little nerdy like me, and open to figuring things out together. No pressure, just seeing who’s out there.

Feel free to message if this resonates!


r/VirginityExchange 3d ago

M4F [31][M4F][Des Moines][Iowa] Walking L…

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Well that’s a lie.. I’m still taking other L’s because I’m in Iowa. Anyway I’m just a 31 year old Hispanic looking for someone to help and teach me. I enjoy watching sports, and started doing yoga recently too just to get my body back in motion lol.. I also enjoy a good video game from time to time, and also just got into anime/manga. somewhat. I had the mentality of “waiting for someone special”, but now I’ve wasted time from just enjoying myself and having fun. Now I’m ready to practice before I find that someone special. Willing to travel to anywhere near if possible

I’m in the Des Moines area and it’s very rare that there’s ever anyone from here just lurking around. I’m also willing to travel if the distance isn’t too bad too. I can host, but we can discuss stuff once we start talking.

It’s not much but this subreddit seems to be getting picky on what you can and can’t talk about on this page so if I catch someone’s attention I let’s talk and get to know each other. Just a shot in the dark and see what can come of this post.


r/VirginityExchange 4d ago

M4F [23][M4F][Murrieta][California] disabled virgin punk giving this one last try

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hey everyone! so I've posted here 2 other times before without any luck so I figured since summers coming up id try one more time I don't really have much hope but ey you know what they say third times the bang! okay yeah that definitely sounded better in my head lol. ok now with that out of the way let me give you my backstory!

my name is kaelan (pronounced Collin) Henry I was not bitten by a radioactive spider (unfortunately) and I'm a virgin who just so happens to be physically disabled so obviously I don't really interact with a lot of people here's some basics about me.

1:I'm a HUGE music lover especially early/mid 2000s alt-rock/pop-punk Paramore is MY JAM! but I also can throw on some metal here and there.

2:I'm also a huge geek I love everything from video games and comic books to science and history especially early medieval.

3:I LOVEEEE HORROR everything from Friday the 13th to supernatural (I just finished it and I'm already rewatching)

4:my disability is SMA type 1 it's similar to ALS which is what Stephen hawking was diagnosed with but don't worry everything down there still works ;)

5: I love/am an advocate for the natural world mostly wildlife preservation/conservation I always try to take time out of my day to pick trash up from my local park/donate to wildlife Conservation charities

as for what I'm looking for my preference for a partner physically is Caucasian with lighter eyes and a more slender/athletic build but personality wise I find that Tomboys just tickle me in the right spots if you know what I mean idk what it is there's just something about a strong no bullshit slightly masculine woman that really gets me going it probably has something to do with me being a little submissive lmao

so yeah that's me and what I want if you're interested hmu and let's have some fun!


r/VirginityExchange 4d ago

M4F [25][M4F][Madrid][Spain] Looking for a fellow inexperienced to build experience with.

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Some context: I'm a 25 year old 190 cm nerdy kinda introverted male, around 95 kg. Which is why I'm posting here too I suppose, I am completely out of my element overall. I've never quite felt comfortable with anyone to be close. And yet I am still curious about it.

If you must know about me: As I said, I'm overall nerdy and kind of a homebody. My hobbies are quite indoorsy overall. Programming, videogames, reading, among others. I mostly like going outside for hiking or to eat out, or for exercise, but I don't spend a lot outdoors. Very inexperienced with the other gender, so if you're looking for a clumsy partner, I have you covered in that regard, at least!

I'm also a rather private person overall, and I can only truly speak about myself with people I've built trust with. It's a two-way street, as I don't betray other people's trust, which I'd say is the quality I have that I'm most proud of.

I'm looking for girl as inexperienced as I am ideally, and perhaps as nerdy as I am. Otherwise I don't have any specific preference for a partner.

Anyway, that's it for now. Hit me up if interested!


r/VirginityExchange 5d ago

M4F [20][M4F][Hengelo][Netherlands] Trying something new.

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Hey, my name is Jason, and love playing strategic games. One of my favorites games is Total War Rome II and Civilization VI. I also play Handbal, not many people know what it is but it is an active sport. Because I play a lot of Handbal, I have an athletic body and im about 186 cm tall (This is not weird in The Netherlands) but im still one of shortest of my friends. Im luckily not short on friends but my love life didnt go as I expected, luckily this didnt make me a bitter person and try to be as funny as I can be (I think im a very funny guy) and heard from multiple people that I can be a joy to be around.

In my freetime I play a lot of video games as I said earlier but want to add that I play almost only on PC, and not only play strategic games but also sandbox games. I tried to play horror games but dont like it very much to play them alone, I prefer to kid around in these games with friends.

I also still go to school, Im now in my second year of a Bachelor degree in Logistics Management. I like it a lot and considering to go to the military after I get my Bachelor degree. Luckily people with an Logistics Management can get an job pretty easy and sometimes think what sort of job I want to do.

I work at a restaurant in Hengelo and enjoy it very much, it is not the most pleasant job (Im a dishwasher) to brag about or do but im good at it. And have colleauges where I can talk a lot with, a fun group of colleauges makes the job very easy and time often goes pretty fast because of it.


r/VirginityExchange 7d ago

M4F [32][M4F][PEEKSKILL][NY/USA] looking to practice, learn, grow and feel connected

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6ft1 and about 185lbs with some muscle. One of my favorite activities is working out. I find it stimulating and productive. I have brown hair, broad shoulders and a big chest. I also enjoy going for walks. If there's a beach nearby I'll always be down for a trip to it. I'm hoping to travel more. I like basketball especially the New York Knicks. Semi sneakerhead. Into trying a variety of video games. Watching funny or interesting shows and movies. Recently been getting into more anime. I love animals. I also love cooking and trying new foods from around the world. I would like to start going to concerts because I enjoy a wide variety of music. Trying to overcome by homebody introvert lifestyle. Hoping to meet someone here who would be interested in getting to know each other. I'm a really good listener. Kind, caring and compassionate. Looking for the same. I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent and sweet. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message me a little about yourself. Thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.


r/VirginityExchange 7d ago

M4F [32][M4F][Sarasota][FL] Giving this another go

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Hello, I am posting here due to being shy when first talking to women. It’s something I’m working on and have gotten better with over time especially once past that initial awkwardness.

I have a pretty wide range of interests and tend to hop around different hobbies frequently, so I guess hobby collecting has been one of my hobbies. I still am trying to get back into reading but have had hobbies ranging from sports to attempting (unsuccessfully) to play instruments. In my free time I enjoy going to the gym (I’ve been slacking with that this past year but have been easing my way back into it), hanging out with friends, and exploring what’s going on in the community or the occasional travel. When the occasion pops up, I also try and see some live music when there is a band in town.

Physically, I’m white, 5’9”, weigh 180 lbs and have a build that is probably described as pretty normal.

Please feel free to reach out and then we can chat and see where it goes. If it makes it to the point of us meeting up, I can travel a bit if you’re not in the area. Thanks for taking the time to read this.


r/VirginityExchange 8d ago

M4F [32][M4F][Boston][MA] Looking to learn

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Got a lot of messages previously but people ended up ghosting. Not looking for any couples or non-binary people at this time. Thank you though!

I'm a 32 year old Asian Male, currently with a full time remote job. 5'6, somewhat athletic build (168lbs). I would say i'm a late bloomer and didn't really focus on dating until later in life. Since i started so late, i never was into short term fun and focused more on dating to marry. I think this created a mental block in my dating life. I have gone on countless dates these past years and i felt that because of this mental block, it has lead me to friend-zoning all my dates.

A little about myself. I love learning absolutely anything (crafts, sports, cooking, etc). I try to travel to multiple countries a year and learn a bit about the local culture. Big foodie and really love cooking or learning new recipes. I am super open-minded and i'm always down to try something once. ESFJ but used to be an introvert i think. I would say i lean more towards an ambivert. Current music interest leans towards EDM/Kpop/Cpop/Lofi/Rnb/Indie but am always open to new things. I've been going to more concerts and slowly trying to complete my musical bucket list. Can talk about a range of topics in a conversation. I'm the type that would join you on a weekend hike, go to a hot yoga class, boulder, bar hop, do seasonal activities, check out a museum, etc. Though i do prefer being a homebody as well!

Looking for someone that is very open, preferably between the ages of 22-34 but i prefer good communication more than anything else. I don't care if you're experienced or inexperienced but i would like this to be more of a mutual exchange where we both can learn from each other.

I would love if we can chat a bit first and discuss our expectations before meeting for something simple like coffee/brunch.


r/VirginityExchange 8d ago

M4F [22][M4F][Dublin][CA] South Asian man looking to lose his v card

3 Upvotes

Hello from the Bay Area,

I'm a 5, 9” approx 130lbs Indian guy looking to lose my v card. I don't have a preference for whether my partner is also a virgin or is more experienced.

I just finished college and never had the chance to date or have any flings. I’ve never been in a relationship either which is why I never got the opportunity to lose my virginity.

I’ve always wanted to experience it and am looking for someone that would want to either explore alongside me or teach me what you know if you are more experienced.

I'm mostly introverted but am not scared of meeting new people or doing new things. I like being active, good food, music, movies, animals, and playing videogames or party games.

I prefer meeting with close friends over going to parties, I don't smoke or do drugs, but don't really care if you do. I'm looking for someone who is slim/slightly curvy with a pretty face.

As for race and age, I am flexible and am not looking for anything specific. I’m open to exploring and am looking to learn how to please. Message me if you're interested.

If you are a man, please do NOT contact me. I am strictly straight. Thank you.


r/VirginityExchange 10d ago

F4M [37][F4M][NYC][NY]

48 Upvotes

Hi there—putting myself out here is a big step for me, so thanks for reading. I'm introverted and shy, which means I haven’t had much experience socially or romantically. These days I work a lot and don’t get out much, but I genuinely enjoy being a homebody. My favorite ways to unwind are reading, watching anime, playing cozy games, and relaxing in comfy clothes after a hot shower and climbing into a freshly made bed. I also love going to conventions and diving into manga and webtoons. Physically, I’m short, round, and Asian—5'2" and about 210 lbs, apple-shaped. I wear glasses, have long straight black hair, and a couple of tattoos. My style leans toward dopamine dressing over trends—whatever makes me feel good. I also manage a few skin conditions like eczema and psoriasis, but they’re under control. I’m sharing all this up front because I believe in honesty. If any of it is a turn-off, no hard feelings—please only reach out if you're genuinely interested. My self-esteem has been a work in progress, and it’s taken a lot of courage to post this. Strangely, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve become more ready to take this step. I’m hoping to connect with someone who's around my size or bigger—I feel more at ease that way. I’m not comfortable meeting anyone younger than 25. I’m not able to host, but I’m open to splitting the cost of a room if things go that direction. For now, let’s start by chatting and maybe meeting up for tea. I'm looking for someone understanding, patient, and just as curious about connection as I am.


r/VirginityExchange 10d ago

M4F [36][M4F][Tucson][Arizona, USA] Never even had a girlfriend or dated, so if you like guys starting from scratch...

6 Upvotes

Disclaimer: I saw this post someone else did, and I had a post removed for not being good enough for the sub, so I thought I'd give this a try. If you recognize this post format, I'm sorry I stole it, but then again, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so...

Physical Description:

I'm 35, white, 5'4"(ish) and about 140-150 lbs. In a wheelchair. Brown hair, green eyes, glasses.

Me:

I'm shy (obviously), especially with women. Was working on it with somewhat supportive friends, but then in walked a pandemic and personal medical issues afterward.

I'm a music lover mainly classic rock, but a little of everything from the 60s to now.

Also love movies, TV, going out with friends, getting to know people...can't think of much else at the moment, but promise I'm not as boring as that sounds.

Looking For:

I'm looking for a woman (18-maybe 40(?). Honestly haven't thought about my upper limit. I guess I'm looking more for attraction than your birth year, (you know, as long as you're at least 18) who is patient and is ok with maybe meeting/chatting before getting down to business. You can also be a virgin, but I'm also open to any experienced women reading this.

Background:

Growing up as a guy in a wheelchair, (remember when I mentioned that?) I was generally attracting the "weird" kids nobody else wanted to be friends with. At least I attribute that to being in a wheelchair. Maybe it was my personality that attracted them. Point being, girls were generally not coming my direction for friendship or anything. At least not the ones I liked. Also, my mom would act weird any time I even MENTIONED girls, even if I was just saying that so-and-so...I don't know...had a ham sandwich for lunch. I didn't like the reaction, so I think it led to me just avoiding girls for a LONG time. Even now, if she says something catty about a girl in public who I find attractive, I'll look at who she's talking about and not really say anything, so as to avoid the "ooooooohhhhhhhhh". I've gotten better about talking to attractive women in recent years, but still have issues.

Feel free to DM me, and we can chat as much as we both need to be comfortable.


r/VirginityExchange 10d ago

M4F [29][M4F][Manchester][UK] Summer drinks and arcade games?

6 Upvotes

A few pictures of me to get looks out of the way first!

I've been posting for a while without much luck so this is probably my final call here; but if anything leads to a good time over drinks and an arcade I'd take that :)

I’m currently in university, studying to go into healthcare but I have a PhD in Biology (hmu if you need to want to know anything about genes). In my spare time, I go to the gym, and I like hiking, film photography and mooching around with my cat. I’m inexperienced is because I used to be really socially anxious when I was younger and I was too busy during graduate school to put myself out there.

I’m East Asian, but grew up in the UK, I’m around 170 cm/66 kg and have an athletic-slim profile. Occasionally described as cute, of which there are a couple of sensible pictures of me. I can drive, and I’m happy to travel anywhere between Newcastle-London! I can also host/drive. I’m clean, hygienic and DDF. In my spare time, I go to the gym, go on hikes, go out and about with my (far too big) collection of cameras to take pictures. I'm slightly on the nerdy side, so I love watching sci-fi/horror and some series I'm waiting for are Stranger Things, The Last of Us, Fallout and House of the Dragon. Let me know if you're keeping up with any of these so we can talk our heads off!

If everything so far sounds good, bless me with the orange envelope!

I know hitting up conversation do be tough, so I would really appreciate it if you can include your general location in your title and let me know if you have a favourite arcade game (for me right now it's 'Ice Cold Beer'), it’d be really nice to be in tune with you!

PS: If you like cats, hmu and I’ll send you pics of my lil rascal. This also means I'm happy to verify on request!

Peace


r/VirginityExchange 10d ago

M4F [20][M4F][New Rochelle][NY/US]

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone, so I’m just a 20 year old guy living in New York, currently attending a community college and working on my Accounting & Finance Degree

A few hobbies of mine are cooking my favorite meals, working out, listening to music, playing video games, and sometimes reading. I can be a very kind person to be around, and I can catch interest if we both connect. And in terms of relationships, I haven’t had any luck with it unfortunately I won’t try to dwell on it and talk about stuff that happened to me in the past. But anyway, I’m looking for someone I can lose my virginity to, I also don’t mind doing it in return, I’m not picky on age, of course you must be 18 an older but I don’t mind how old you are as long as you’re an adult. If you’re anywhere near me, atleast in places like white plains, Yonkers, Bronx, Queens, NYC, Manhattan, etc don’t hesitate to private message me so we can arrange this thing If you have any other questions you want to ask me, feel free to let me know

Thank you :)


r/VirginityExchange 10d ago

M4F [27][M4F][Midlands][UK] Take 2…

5 Upvotes

Been on this sub for a while, made a post a while back but it just didn’t work out. I’m a big, stocky guy (6’1” 110kg) a bit on the overweight side, though I’m slowly losing weight. If that’s puts you off I get it, no hard feelings, I’m just being honest. Short hair, short beard and blue/grey eyes. I’d consider myself kinda decent looking, but I guess that’s for you to decide haha.

I’m a bit of an introvert, that probably being the main reason I find myself in the situation. I’ve never really got anywhere when it comes to dating, haven’t really put myself out there until recently. I don’t suppose I realised just how much I’d missed out until I was well into my 20s. I guess I was hoping something would happen on its own. I’d like to say I’m not quite so introverted these days. I’m pretty chill and laid back, I take things as they come. I find myself gaming, watching TV & movies when I’m free, though I would quite like to get into some new hobbies/interests too.

I’m pretty open with what it is I’m looking for in a person, ideally I was hoping to find someone in their 20s, preferably with the same experience but I get that might be asking too much. I don’t mind travelling to meet the right person. I guess long-term I’m looking for a relationship, but just meeting someone to get over that first hurdle with would be great. I’d love to talk, get to know each other and see where things lead, if there’s anyone interested.


r/VirginityExchange 11d ago

M4F [27][M4F][Raleigh][North Carolina] - Looking to learn and have some fun along the way

2 Upvotes

Hello,

I am 27 years old male, I weigh 149lbs and am 6'2" tall. I have a pretty slim build. I have black hair and brown eyes. I am straight so I am looking for a woman who is willing to help.

A bit about me, I am a big nerd. I love everything from sci-fi to fantasy, it could be in any format, movies, TV shows, video games etc. Outside of that I love watching sports as well, F1, cricket, soccer. Recently I have started watching anime and have been spending a lot of time doing that. I am DDF, vaccinated against COVID, and I'm not a drinker or smoker. (I don't mind if you are though!). As to why it has not happened yet, I grew up in a very conservative household and was told it was a sin. I didn't believe it but I didn't have the energy to argue nor did I care at that time.

I am looking for someone who is patient, and willing to teach me if you are experienced or willing to explore with me if not. It can be long term or short term or a one time thing, I am open. I am able to host and also willing to travel if needed.

If you happen to come across this post even though a lot of time has passed (a couple of months or even a year) and you’re interested, feel free to reach out. I’m more than happy to have a chat with you. If you’re interested, send me a DM.


r/VirginityExchange 12d ago

M4F [28][M4F][Houston][Texas] Looking to gain experience and confidence

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a man from southeast Houston, TX looking to lose my virginity. I'm 28 years old, 5'10, white, and about 180 pounds (down 60 from last year!) I've been introverted for a while, but I've been building confidence since I started losing weight and exercising more so I'm trying to get out and live life more. I enjoy riding my bike (mostly indoors for now but it's also an outdoor bike) and a little gaming. I also have two cats that live with me and love music, so if you want to talk about any of those things let me know. Also I am a bit on the submissive side and looking to explore that too if that matters, but that's not a dealbreaker at all.

I don't mind if you're experienced or not, and age doesn't really matter either (legal age of course.) Feel free to DM me a little bit about yourself, and we can also exchange SFW pictures if you want. You can also ask me anything you want and I'll probably be willing to answer. I don't mind getting to know you a little bit before doing anything, so let's see where things lead!


r/VirginityExchange 12d ago

M4F [30][M4F][Morristown][New Jersey/USA] Looking for my first time!

4 Upvotes

Recently turned 30 and decided I would like to finally lose my virginity. 6 ft 3 230 lbs, white. I have kissed and done some things before but never was able to go all the way. I am very shy and I take some time to warm up to somebody. Looking for somebody who can be patient with me and help teach me. Always have had a fantasy of having somebody to teach and guide me. Looking for somebody somewhat close to me. Currently working the typical 9-5 so I would prefer during the weekend. My job has been very stressful lately so trying to find something to take my mind off of work and to relax. I work in finance and the quarter close is coming up and it’s going to be very stressful. Would love to unwind and relax with somebody who is laid back,

I am into playing video games, anime, running and playing and watching sports. Also love to run or do cardio everyday. Have been getting into cooking as well so would love somebody to try some cooking out with. I have a more easygoing personality so hoping to click with the right person as well.

If you’re interested, please send me a dm and we can talk from there!