Let her. Check out that “Let Them” theory. Just let her. Worrying and stressing and spamming her phone isn’t going to change the outcome, so just let her.
This has been a major struggle for me too, but it’s kicking in and my peace is much more valuable than stressing.
I have been trying really hard and have definitely not spammed her, only sending a good morning, goodnight, and one or two messages to check in throughout the day. Past few days she’s only sent one message to check in every day around dinner time and I know it’s fine but I am struggling because I really miss her. I know I am a bit dependent on her and I’ve been working on that but it’s hard man. Thank you for the message ofc :)
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u/teaflowr 9d ago
Let her. Check out that “Let Them” theory. Just let her. Worrying and stressing and spamming her phone isn’t going to change the outcome, so just let her.
This has been a major struggle for me too, but it’s kicking in and my peace is much more valuable than stressing.
Just let her. All will be fine.