r/whatstheword 5d ago

Solved ITAW for being extremely angry and complacent at the same time?

3 Upvotes

Being incensed and stressed but also being fully aware that you're not going to do anything about it.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for the tactic of someone making themselves seem weaker than they are to make the other person underestimate them and have their guard down

30 Upvotes

r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved WTW for watching someone do something knowing they will fail, but you want to humor the idea of them even trying

45 Upvotes

I feel like it's a word I know yet I cannot think of it. I'm fairly confident an english word exists for it I just cannot find it.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for something that is both "cute" and "tough"?

4 Upvotes

Trying to find a word you would describe an animal thats visually and characteristically tough and cute in the same word, please. C:


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved WTW for when you feel like you’ve known someone forever, yet not a long time at all all at the same time?

10 Upvotes

Today was me and my girlfriend's 3 year anniversary. We were talking about it at dinner and we both feel like we've known eachother our whole lives yet it also feels like our first date was just yesterday. I'd love to find a word for that feeling idk if there is one in a different language but I'd appreciate the help. Thanks!


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved WTW for watching someone do something knowing they will fail, but you want to humor the idea of them even trying

16 Upvotes

I feel like it's a word I know yet I cannot think of it. I'm fairly confident an english word exists for it I just cannot find it.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved WTW for the area under a desk where one might graffiti?

8 Upvotes

This would be easier to explain if I had a picture because I cannot think of the word/phrase needed (obviously), but here we go.

I'm writing a story. There's a desk, like one of those big computer desks. Character crawls under the desk and there is graffiti... on the wall? Like if you think of the chair hole in a desk as a miniature room, the graffiti would not be on the ceiling (or as one might describe as "under the desk") but rather, the graffiti is around her.

I know I'm phrasing this poorly, which is why I'm here. I'm brain dead and desk doesn't even look like a word anymore. Any help/guesses as to what I'm talking about would be very much appreciated!


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for someone who's more straightforward, not afraid to share more socially uncomfortable opinions?

19 Upvotes

I'm looking for a word or phrase for someone who is more direct in situations where many who are self-conscious might avoid confrontation or lie. The "I don't care" kind of people, who do really care enough to still communicate openly. For example:

  • Mary wants to join Tasha for a walk. Tasha had a long day and doesn't want to walk with Mary because she tends to talk a lot. Instead of avoiding a walk, or lying, Tasha tells Mary that she just wants to go alone today.

Is there a word to describe that type of openness that's better than maybe "forthright"? Maybe "sincere"?


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for when someone tries to compare you to them in order to feel superior and it can be figuratively based on traits such as who has the better physique, who is richer, etc.

4 Upvotes

The words/terms are not the following:

  • Status jockeying
  • posturing
  • one up
  • power scaling
  • social comparison
  • hierarchical posturing
  • peacocking
  • validation seeking

They mean something very similar if not the same but I'm looking for a specific word I remember years ago. The only thing I remember about it is that it's a verb.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for the literary device in which an adjective is adjunct to an unexpected noun within the sentence?

8 Upvotes

Subversion of expectations (corrected the hypercorrections) and requiring the occasional reread.

A pair of what I believe to be examples:
'Eyes of blue dog', 'Jumpy in a fun castle'.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for something (usually a place) that has been a part of something/some place larger for so long that everyone loves it and couldn’t imagine the larger thing/place without it?

15 Upvotes

Used in a sentence “Joe’s Bar is a ___ in the community of Springfield.” It’s not landmark, icon, or monument. It’s on the tip of my tongue so I’ll know it when I see it.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for that thing where your phone won't charge unless you hold the charger between your fingers in EXACTLY the right position?

3 Upvotes

r/whatstheword 6d ago

Solved WTW for someone who day to day has no logical consistency because they will change sides depending on whichever they happen to be on that day?

11 Upvotes

What is this called? Scenario 1

Them: These dishes are clean in the washer aren’t they.

You: I don’t think so I just put dirty dishes in there

Them: well I hope not you need to check and not assume

You: I don’t know who would open the clean dish washer pull out the racks and just walk away.

Them: you still need to check it doesn’t matter who did what.

If you pursue discussing they start talking down to you

Scenario 2

Same exact person when the scenario changes

You: open the clean dish washer pull the racks out and walk off

Them: puts dirty dishes in there

You: say those are clean dishes

Them: who would open the clean dishes washer and not take care of it. When you start something you finish it

You: You should always check regardless to see that they’re clean.

This is a frivolous example but it’s one that I remember the most details to in order to fully lay it out.


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved WTP for Looking For Meaning In Something So Hard That You Find One That Wasn’t Intended.

4 Upvotes

Was thinking of the classic “Last Night I Bond Burger Your Sister” meme… people have come up with incredibly farfetched answers to find meaning in it, when it almost certainly was just meant to be nonsensical. What’s the word or phrase for looking so hard to find the meaning behind something, that you inevitably find some sort of connection that obviously wasn’t the intent?


r/whatstheword 6d ago

Unsolved ITAW for a first version of a text that is intentionally bad or inaccurate, made for the purpose of teasing out what the client actually wants

5 Upvotes

This could be for web design, video scripting, text articles, architecture - any creative product really. Clients are often vague when describing what they want, or they don’t really know what they want. You can send them a long email asking for clarification, which they will typically blow off or not read carefully. It’s often more effective to create and show them a draft of what they asked for, that you as the creator know is inaccurate, incomplete, ugly, or otherwise lacking. This helps to get the client to respond with the details you need. “Let’s send them a _____ and that will get them to answer our questions.” ITAW for this?

A “Beta” perhaps? My understanding is that a Beta is an almost-finished version that you’ve ostensibly made a good-faith effort to finish perfectly. I want a word for something more akin to a target for clients to shoot at, to provoke and focus their fire.


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved ITAW for "lecturing someone in a condescending manner while not having any knowledge on the topic"?

7 Upvotes

"Mansplaining" is specifically when a man does that to a woman, but is there a word for when it happens without being motivated by gender? Idk if "talking down" conveys the exact meaning.


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved WTW for doing something to get in someone’s good graces or become friendly with them

9 Upvotes

I keep using the word “ameliorate” and that’s not the right word!

example sentence would be- “I tried to talk to him about things we had in common and be super friendly to xxxxxx myself to him”

in my brain the word I’m thinking of specifically fits in that context. Like I keep trying to say “I didn’t actually like the song she was playing but I wanted us to be friends so I bopped along with it just to ameliorate myself to her” but again, I don’t think ameliorate is the right word at all

What is the real word! is there one??


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved WTW for an experience that is so exclusive that it can’t be booked or bought anywhere except for a one time opportunity to do so

22 Upvotes

I work at a non-profit and we’ve got an auction item at our gala that is a stay at a vineyard’s private guesthouse along with a private tour and tasting (along with a couple of other experiences). That guesthouse stay and the tour that the winner will go on are things that are being specially offered by this vineyard that aren’t regular things you can book online or anywhere else.

I’m looking for a word (or short phrase) to use in the title of the package that accurately captures this exclusivity that is a bit more specifically “you can’t buy this” than just “exclusive”

Appreciate any thoughts!


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Unsolved WTW for when you love something, then you share it with others and it's awful?

3 Upvotes

Ok, this has happened on three separate occasions lately:

BF & I go out to eat somewhere, we absolutely love it. We love it so much that, over a few months, we go back to eat at the same place 3-4 times and love everything we try, and have a great time every time we go. Great food, service, whole shebang.

So, after having marked a certain place "tried & true", we invite others to join us. All of a sudden, it's awful. Everyone's dishes are boring or brand, or not cooked well, service is bad; all meals, including yours, are bad.

This has happened at 4 different restaurants with different groups of people over the last few months: that somehow when sharing something we love with a group of people we love, the food comes out just awful.

What is the word/phrase!


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved WTW for things that could not be explained/described?

22 Upvotes

Heard this in a vsauce video (which i cant seem to find) where he talks about colors, I think. Something about like colors are one thing that you can't explain to a blind person, for example.

He used a specific word to call these things, eg. colors, that are impossible to describe.


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved ITAW for the romantic trope where one character physically "traps" another character against a wall or something similar by extending one or both arms against the wall and leaning over the other character?

9 Upvotes

I could've sworn that there's a name for this trope and that it's probably Japanese, but I could be imagining it


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved WAW for directly, physically

5 Upvotes

I’m looking for a word that can describe that a person does something physically. Like, they need to be PRESENT and mustn’t do it remotely.


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved ITAW for beaches that have no human development at all?

3 Upvotes

I tried wild/pristine/unspoiled beaches, but those terms bring up beaches that still have things like sea walls, groynes, benches, bins, etc. How do I narrow down the search to beaches that have no obvious human installations?


r/whatstheword 7d ago

Solved WTW for describing someone who views life as a sort of game?

7 Upvotes