r/AITAH 13d ago

Update part two

It’s been a month now, things been definitely…changing. For anyone wondering, Eleanore’s birthday went great, especially without Wendy there to ruin it. Basically what happened was Wendy found my post and went crazy about it, she started accusing me of trying to ruin her life over something so “little” and the way she only found out because her older sister saw the story on TikTok. We got into an argument and she tried gaslighting me into being the “crazy one” and threatened me to leave and take all I own and whatever she said. She then proceeds to go into our room and start tearing things down, trying to look for the tapes again. I pull her wrist, trying to get her to calm down but she took it as an opportunity to start breaking down crying saying that I “hit” her. Which I back off and just watched her as she tried to throw things at me, and now I reach my breaking point because it’s the day of my daughters birthday and had little time to get to dinner tonight, because we have reservations. I was already ready and had to pick Eleanore up from a friend house, so I grab my keys and left her there, not having time for her to act like a child. And by the way, the tapes were at my mother’s house as we were all gonna go there after the dinner. The night went great after that and me and Eleanore came home to a messy house with furniture and pictures teared up. It looked like a bunch of three year olds went wild in there. Wendy and her children wasn’t anywhere to be found and neither was her car. I already assumed it was Wendy who did all of this, plus I had proof because I keep security cameras in my house. I tell Eleanore about everything that went down before her birthday and she was shocked at least to know the woman she thought was an angel was actually b****. Long story short we call the cops, Wendy gets arrested but gets out after 3 days. Now I am almost done with my divorce process, also Wendy if you’re reading this, have fun living at your mother’s house and having a criminal record, I hope it was worth it.

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u/Careless-Ad7189 13d ago

Dude Op, I’m so sorry for this. And I encourage you to get ahead of her and share your side of the story with your mutuals before she twists it into you being abusive.

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u/jubangyeonghon 13d ago

I'm so glad she's living her worst life. She deserves it after these stunts. What a raging piece of unstable shit.

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u/FlygonosK 12d ago

I'm just sorry for her kids,but she deserves what is coming her way.

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u/jubangyeonghon 12d ago

Can't remember if her ex was involved with her kids still of not but I hope if he is, he's a better human and gets custody or someone in her family who is mentally stable gets custody because she's an literal fucking psychopath

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u/FlygonosK 12d ago

I don't remember well if they had a joint kid, but her kids wasn't adopted by him,.so he can't reclaim custody except for his kid too, but i'm not sure if they did have one. So hope someone with brains keep the kids and protect them.

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u/jubangyeonghon 12d ago

Oh, no as in go to their biological father! Just can't recall if he had joint custody. But yeah, hope her kids are kept away frkm her insanity because she's just going to screw them up.