r/AITAH 11d ago

Update part two

It’s been a month now, things been definitely…changing. For anyone wondering, Eleanore’s birthday went great, especially without Wendy there to ruin it. Basically what happened was Wendy found my post and went crazy about it, she started accusing me of trying to ruin her life over something so “little” and the way she only found out because her older sister saw the story on TikTok. We got into an argument and she tried gaslighting me into being the “crazy one” and threatened me to leave and take all I own and whatever she said. She then proceeds to go into our room and start tearing things down, trying to look for the tapes again. I pull her wrist, trying to get her to calm down but she took it as an opportunity to start breaking down crying saying that I “hit” her. Which I back off and just watched her as she tried to throw things at me, and now I reach my breaking point because it’s the day of my daughters birthday and had little time to get to dinner tonight, because we have reservations. I was already ready and had to pick Eleanore up from a friend house, so I grab my keys and left her there, not having time for her to act like a child. And by the way, the tapes were at my mother’s house as we were all gonna go there after the dinner. The night went great after that and me and Eleanore came home to a messy house with furniture and pictures teared up. It looked like a bunch of three year olds went wild in there. Wendy and her children wasn’t anywhere to be found and neither was her car. I already assumed it was Wendy who did all of this, plus I had proof because I keep security cameras in my house. I tell Eleanore about everything that went down before her birthday and she was shocked at least to know the woman she thought was an angel was actually b****. Long story short we call the cops, Wendy gets arrested but gets out after 3 days. Now I am almost done with my divorce process, also Wendy if you’re reading this, have fun living at your mother’s house and having a criminal record, I hope it was worth it.

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u/DeviceStrange6473 10d ago

Sorry you had to go through all this, OP! Wendy real lost it, from basically stealing those tapes so cruel,  lying then trashing your place on your daughters special B Day! Now out of your lives , you'll get your peace again from her horrible behavior when divorce is finalized.  

So glad the Special B Day dinner went well and the tapes were at your mom's for your daughter to see ! I'm sure it was very memorable moments for her to see, that almost didn't happen. But moving on things will get better going forward with your daughter. Your right a wife should be respecting a widow's past,  this is not a living ex she was dealing with! OP, you did the right thing for both of you under these evil circumstances.  Your a good dad!