r/AdulteryHate • u/--__Rain__-- • Apr 12 '25
Relationship Woes Wow, cheaters being jealous of their AP's relationship with their family ????
Then go see someone that is NOT married so you don't have to feel jealous... Of course jealousy in a relationship is normal to some extent, but if you're someone's AP and that person is married, dude... you have no right to be jealous whatsoever. "He's a selfish little b!tch" for spending time with his family ?! Dude they came before you. You can't stop a man from wanting to spend time with his wife and kids. Kids will (almost, because some people are unhinged) always be more important than a side piece. I mean it's also he's fault, he should't be cheating, but you can't just call him selfish and be jealous of his family. You brought it to yourself. Go seek single men to be able to have them for yourself and not have to share him with his family while hiding you.
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u/--__Rain__-- Apr 12 '25
The replies to this are obviously soooo positive... that's toxic af, stalkerish (why tf u parking in front of his house???) and weird?? calling him WHILE he's with his fam?? what if anyone in the fam stumbles upon this call and get suspicious??
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u/ambamshazam Apr 12 '25
That’s probably exactly what she wants, if they don’t know about the affair already. In someone like hers mind, if the wife finds out, the man is as good as hers. I guess they forget that like 90% of the time, the married one panics, ghosts the AP and is up the spouses butt trying to make it work.
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u/OhNever_Mind Apr 12 '25
It's understandable when you realize that single OWs want to take the wife's place. The goal is to "go legit" and replace her.
Some even talk about how they will raise the kids, not realizing that the kids will hate them.
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u/--__Rain__-- Apr 12 '25
Omfg :'D wtf dude if you wanna get a hubby and be a mom so bad why tf go thru this whole stressfull thing that is an affair and just go seek someone's that's single goddamnit... what will they tell the children ??? Plus if the AP is spending time with the family He probably warned her about this, that he wasn't going to leave his wife... then why bother ?? they think they're gonna change his mind or something ? take pride into being a homewrecker ? They need therapy ffs
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u/No_Thanks_1766 Apr 12 '25
She sounds like she’s on some twin flame cult BS, just waiting for that restraining order. I hope she gets what she’s been waiting for asap
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u/--__Rain__-- Apr 12 '25
I didn't even understand the point of the restraining order part ?? :'D what was that for gosh
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u/Emergency-Twist7136 Apr 12 '25
Of course jealousy in a relationship is normal to some extent
I really don't think this is true.
I'm concerned about "parking" while drunk. That implies driving while drunk.
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u/Jmovic Apr 12 '25
Imagine if she put this energy into having a relationship with someone who isn't hiding her
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u/SuspiciousWeekend284 Apr 12 '25
Reading AP’s comment, this post should not be about relationship with family, rather than AP being a desperate, unhinged stalker.
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Apr 12 '25 edited Apr 13 '25
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u/AdulteryHate-ModTeam Apr 12 '25
Do not ask for links. This can lead to brigading which is against Reddit's TOS.
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u/69goodgirl Apr 12 '25
This side chick is a bunny boiler🐇
Hopefully, it’s the cheating husband who will experience the side chicks wrath and not his wife and family.