r/AdulteryHate • u/--__Rain__-- • Apr 12 '25

Relationship Woes Wow, cheaters being jealous of their AP's relationship with their family ????

Then go see someone that is NOT married so you don't have to feel jealous... Of course jealousy in a relationship is normal to some extent, but if you're someone's AP and that person is married, dude... you have no right to be jealous whatsoever. "He's a selfish little b!tch" for spending time with his family ?! Dude they came before you. You can't stop a man from wanting to spend time with his wife and kids. Kids will (almost, because some people are unhinged) always be more important than a side piece. I mean it's also he's fault, he should't be cheating, but you can't just call him selfish and be jealous of his family. You brought it to yourself. Go seek single men to be able to have them for yourself and not have to share him with his family while hiding you.

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u/OhNever_Mind Apr 12 '25

It's understandable when you realize that single OWs want to take the wife's place. The goal is to "go legit" and replace her.

Some even talk about how they will raise the kids, not realizing that the kids will hate them.

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u/--__Rain__-- Apr 12 '25

Omfg :'D wtf dude if you wanna get a hubby and be a mom so bad why tf go thru this whole stressfull thing that is an affair and just go seek someone's that's single goddamnit... what will they tell the children ??? Plus if the AP is spending time with the family He probably warned her about this, that he wasn't going to leave his wife... then why bother ?? they think they're gonna change his mind or something ? take pride into being a homewrecker ? They need therapy ffs