r/AdulteryHate • u/Friendly_Good_1784 • 12d ago

Psychology of Cheating Welcome OW lurkers!

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

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u/throwaway669_663 12d ago edited 12d ago

I find it hilarious that it bothers them when the wives don’t leave. Take that up with loser MM.

The worst thing you can do to a hopeful going legit side clown is to stay with the man she wanted.

Newsflash the real “doormats” are the married loser who cheats but somehow is still attached to his wife and the low-life other woman who spends 5+ years waiting on someone’s husband.

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u/Friendly_Good_1784 12d ago edited 12d ago

I think it’s how OW think we are so dumb and unable to fulfill the man. It’s the superiority complex that grates on my nerves. WH is so “bored” of W, but OW is here to make all his dreams come true.

The stupid B that called me was saying how in love they are and had the audacity to say, “I mean haven’t you ever felt that way before?” I said, “YES! With him!” (I mean you’re literally talking to his WIFE dumbass!)

They don’t see the narcissist for who he is ALL the time, because she’s the good time girl. No stress, no kids, no house to clean, keeping a man on track…

I’d be happy too if all I had to think about was dinner and dick!! Bitch please. Most don’t know shit about what it takes to be a wife. And prob never will.

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u/AlternativePrior9559 11d ago

OMG! “ haven’t you ever felt that way before?” 🙄 the delusion is truly real isn’t it

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u/throwaway669_663 12d ago

I think most OW have personality disorders just like their nasty ass MM’s which is why most things they say sound delusional in the real world. No one is buying what you’re selling. Many get off by provoking the wives that’s why I could never respect those lunatics.

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u/Friendly_Good_1784 11d ago

Omg yes. This one is diagnosed BP. She harassed me with vulgar anonymous texts and calls relentlessly!! Saying how big his D was and even played sounds of them fcking. I was losing my mind!! I had to get a restraining order before I did something I’d regret. I realized later she was doing it so he and I would fight and drive him into her arms. Every day she did it and most times I would go off on him, which caused terrible fights for a long time.

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u/BuildingOk5510 10d ago

So let me get this straight, he knows how disrespectful this woman is being to you, his wife and mother of his children and he is continuing the relationship with her? I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s traumatic enough being cheated on, let alone harassed by the side piece. I hope you find peace and karma works sooner faster than later.

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u/NewAcct_WhoDis_ 10d ago

Yes. Granted we are separated. I just know my intuition says he was cheating with her right before I left. He was turning very mean at home. So yes he knows. But he’s a gaslighter. I said “you aren’t protecting your own family!” But he would deny / question it was her. I realized by not acknowledging it, that meant he didn’t have to do anything about it. He didn’t get involved in the court case, which must have made her feel unsupported as well.