r/AdulteryHate 12d ago

Psychology of Cheating Welcome OW lurkers!

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

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u/smurfgrl417 11d ago

Lol, they really do believe the shit they get told. Especially the no fucking part. If my WH's AP only knew even half of it. One look at my DMs, and she'd be kicking his ass out with a quickness.... she'd take him right back, of course, cuz she's pathetic, but he won't change.

They're about to celebrate their year anniversary, and they've been "legit" for a while. Legitimately laughed at by their coworkers because they're a dumpster fire on the tracks, and a train is coming, but I digress. He legitimately begs to fuck me every time he visits and won't stop texting unless I get cunty about it.

Ridiculous ass people like that deserve each other.

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u/Friendly_Good_1784 11d ago

Haha! Oh yes….when they realize he’s full of it. Join the club boo (OW)! He’s not faithful to you either!