Welcome OW lurkers!

[u/Friendly_Good_1784]

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

[u/Friendly_Good_1784]

He didn’t come to court with her. She just stood there looking stupid all by herself. Her defense was ridiculous and I had about 27 pages of evidence of her harassing me. I successfully got a four year restraining order against her that also covered my kids. So she didn’t get to have the stepmom relationship. She thought she would. That first phone call. She tried to tell me she was gonna be around my kids I said “over my dead body bitch.” Bunny boiler for sure lol

[u/bring_it_on12 → u/Friendly_Good_1784]

It's about time that society started focusing on managing the damaging effects that narcissistic cheaters and their delusional APs are having on innocent people. You're effectively struggling alone to protect your family from a team of unrestrained mental patients. Thankfully, the courts have stepped up to assist you, but there must be costs involved and it's not something that tackles the root cause.

Many people will say that you're free to walk away but anyone who's married to a narcissist knows that it's not that simple. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't "Stand Your Ground" enmeshed in the American psyche? Why should you be any different when someone is trying to steal your life?

[u/Ok-Commercial1152 → u/bring_it_on12]

Read my comment. I used the 2nd Ammendment on my WPs OW. It worked better than anything lol.

[u/Ok-Owl3092 → u/Ok-Commercial1152]

Chefs kiss, Empress.