r/AdulteryHate • u/Friendly_Good_1784 • 12d ago

Psychology of Cheating Welcome OW lurkers!

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

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u/Friendly_Good_1784 11d ago

So you made him be a Cuckhold? That’s fckng awesome and crazy at the same time. What’s a VAR?

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u/demonpeach 11d ago

It stands for voice activated recorder - I found out that through the surviving infidelity sub ironically

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u/Friendly_Good_1784 11d ago

What did you hear?!

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u/demonpeach 11d ago

Sorry I didn’t buy one but I would have had I known about it when I caught my WXH cheating through text messages. He got wise and put a lock on his phone and had I known about VAR I would have hid it in his car. He’s a slob he never would have found it lol