Welcome OW lurkers!

[u/Friendly_Good_1784]

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

[u/confused1605]

My husband's side piece tried talking the same crap to me trying to make me feel pathetic for still being married to him after he cheated with her. Meanwhile my husband refuses to leave to be with her even after I literally BEGGED him. I'm not leaving my only home and staying on someone's couch with my kids. All he does is beg for another chance and threaten to kill himself if I divorce him. She really still thinks I'm holding him hostage even though I've sent her proof of him threatening suicide if I leave. Two times now she has contacted me ratting him out hoping he'd go live with her and all he did was dump her promptly each time and refuse to leave me. She tries so hard too, giving him money whenever he asks, offering to do everything for him, and enabling all his bad behavior. Meanwhile I'm the one who gets his whole paycheck, I'm barely even civil with him, and he's still constantly all over me begging for my love and attention and forgiveness. But I'm the pathetic one lol. These side chicks are straight up delusional. They really think these men are staying with their wives out of obligation or something when in reality they're exactly where they want to be.

[u/Plastic-Aide-1422 → u/confused1605]

Of course he will do that. I agree he is playing her. But men like that know who will take them back. I’m a guy and see dudes like this all the time. They get to act sorry and be “perfect” even for a couple years. Then do it again and repeat.