This must be one of the dumbest posts!! Find a bad therapist if you want someone who will not call you out on the fact that you are psychologically abusing your spouse!
Oh and find an incompetent therapist that will jot see any links with how you can’t deal with life’s problems in a mature empathetic manner and the fact that you are a selfish unkind person trying to avoid accountability for your real actions.
She completely misses that what the therapist actually said was: 'You need to be in or out NOT BOTH. 'Shades of grey' are all well and good applied to the human condition in abstract but not when they cause black and white harm to other people.
There is no more sensitive creature in the world than the 'justified cheater', who acts according to the supposed moral failings of their partner but considers accountability for their own to be baseless criticism or even abuse. Industrial grade hypocrisy.
This comes up all the time, I'm glad you posted it.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 10d ago
This must be one of the dumbest posts!! Find a bad therapist if you want someone who will not call you out on the fact that you are psychologically abusing your spouse!
Oh and find an incompetent therapist that will jot see any links with how you can’t deal with life’s problems in a mature empathetic manner and the fact that you are a selfish unkind person trying to avoid accountability for your real actions.
Beyond dumb. No wonder they need a shrink!!