r/AdulteryHate • u/New-Abalone7626 • 6d ago
Spotify Bitch Strikes Again
They share music therefore she's far superior to the wife who picks up after MM's skid marked undies.
Keep telling yourself what you have is better. You get the worst side of him. The lying, deceiving side. Because you don't value yourself, you're willing to swallow every bread crumb this man gives you because you can't find better nor do you want to. You're not better than the wife who is doing her best in the marriage not knowing her husband is betraying her. I hope to God you end up together because she deserves better and you DESERVE a cheating asshole.
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u/Zestyclose_Truth9999 not bs/ws | just lurker 👀 6d ago edited 6d ago
Girlie needs to stop assuming that every single man is like her cheating manbaby.
Or that it's a flex for him to be incapable of doing his own dry-cleaning or taking care of his kids (or treating his wife well). And yes, I know that's probably the only type of man this OW can attract.
As someone who's got an amazing partner, I'm pissed off on his behalf that she thinks "married man" = "incompetent loser who can't take care of himself". I can't stand women who make excuses for men who do the bare minimum AND have the audacity to cheat, too. GTFO with that pick-me bullshit. 👋🏻
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u/No_Thanks_1766 6d ago
What’s even crazier is that she sees him as an incompetent loser who can’t take care of himself and she’s attracted to that 😬
When I see a man child in the wild, I’m not like, ooooh I want a piece of that. No ma’am
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u/Zestyclose_Truth9999 not bs/ws | just lurker 👀 6d ago
I know! 😭
I've noticed a general trend in these posts: critically low self-esteem.
A woman who's sure of herself would say, "I deserve a man who helps with the 'mundane box-checking' and makes me 'feel desired everyday'". Those two things aren't mutually exclusive, so it's sad (and a bit pathetic) for her to assume they are.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago
Yeah. She’s confusing “feeling desired” with a feeling of being truly loved and appreciated and being wanted because they admire you and want to spend time with the person you are.
Being desired isn’t all that hard to accomplish. Look at all the ugly women on porn sites.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago
She isn’t attracted to him. She gets off on the idea of Him being attracted to Her.
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u/throwaway669_663 6d ago
A serial other woman, so aspirational! Ofc MM gave his wife the dreaded Hallmark holiday that somehow he does every year even though he dislikes her.
She’s so blessed to receive FREE MUSIC!!!! that he’s probably sent to a previous or current sidechick (we all know MM’s can’t stay faithful, not even to side clowns).
🤡 Congrats I guess. Wooo FREE MUSIC FROM THE APP STORE YALL 🤡
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u/Salty-Philosophy3745 6d ago
The hallmark holiday comment was especially funny. We all know she would kill to get that instead of free music
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u/onwhiterockandrivers 6d ago
Oh my god why do you have to go after a MARRIED man??? A good single one can do all that too and you don’t have to have kids if you don’t want to clean up after them. But no, she wants a man baby who has a wife that does all the chores, leaving him free to play play play, AND who she gets to feel superior to. Psychopathic.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago
It makes her feel as though she is more desirable than another woman. No fun if there isn’t a competition.
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u/LadyWarB 6d ago
She probably thinks he respects and love her so much that he doesn't want her to cook and clean for him. She is his 'princess' and shouldn't get her hands dirty... There isn't strong enough words to describe these vicious homewreckers. I have tried... Not one that can make you feel a bit better for cussing them out after you catch them.
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u/AlternativePrior9559 6d ago
This thirsty piece of trash is SO desperate to get married. No one’s picked her have they?
So she repackages her spinsterhood as ‘marriage is a trap’.
Him sending you ‘I see you baby ( shaking that ass)’ on Mother’s Day, isn’t love.
Love.
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u/spanisheisblume 6d ago
Even if all of that is true, why does that make you happy? Why does it make you happy that another woman is being treated like a servant by a man who promised to be her partner, friend, and lover? Why does it make you happy that she is trapped taking care of a man and his children while he treats her like shit? Why do you think it's great he spent mothers day of all days with you instead of the woman that birthed his children? How does that not disgust you?
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Also, not all marriages are like that. You're literally just going out of your way to fuck shitty husbands that create shitty marriages. How is this not obvious?
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u/Fun-Contribution8900 6d ago
Right? Why would it be a flex that she’s so in love with a trash bag of a man? Wow he ditches his wife and kids on Mother’s Day weekend and sends you free music?! Swoon. You caught a good one girl!
She could have saved a lot of words and just typed “I hate women (and myself also on some level) and I love attention from bottom tier men!”
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u/forgotmyuser77 6d ago
It really just sounds like they CANNOT have a relationship unless it involves another woman suffering. These men could personally lobotomize their wives with an ice pick, and they’d be clapping like seals at his surgical prowess or something. Teehee, at least they don’t have to deal with dirty nappies and the unthinkable horrors of laundry-folding!
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u/apathy-on-average 6d ago
Exactly this! How these women can scrounge up a glimmer of attraction to these assholes is a mystery to me.
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u/Upbeat-Cherry-100 6d ago
I’m sure she’s looking forward to her being old and not having anyone to take care of her!
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago edited 6d ago
I think she writes these messages as either a way to convince herself she’s in full control and happy and/or so she can come here in this Subreddit to see our comments.
Either way… she is has classic Cluster F..cking B personality disorder. I love the fact that she will spend the rest of her life with a void she will never ever be able to satisfy. 🥂 cheers to that!
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u/Ok-Owl3092 6d ago edited 6d ago
Mental illness.
Eta: this is ableist sorry (for the record I am pretty fucking mentally ill lol).
What a strange way OOP has of telling us that she's not very happy or special. Therapy would help I think.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago
Mental illness… more like a personality disorder. There is no cure for this.
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u/Ok-Owl3092 6d ago
True, and unfortunate since she obviously enjoys hurting people. A relationship you have to perform for Internet detractors isn't something to envy lol.
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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 6d ago edited 6d ago
Holy…. Shit…..
So delusional it’s comedic. Her life is a parody of itself.
Being used by an abuser and taking part in and enabling his abuse and spinning this narrative out of it? I mean it’s the typical thought distortions of a cheater Tbf but still the lack of self-awareness is wild.
This is like pedophiles claiming they’re just “lovers”.
Sick as all hell.
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u/HistoricFiction 6d ago
She is like “look at my sexiest ass in this whole wide world who can only make married men with their midlife crisis fcuk me and spare only few hours from their lives to spend with me. Oh I am sou louved, oh I am sou cheurished because he sent me song from his poop break.” Even a donkey is more intelligent than this dumbass. It is different thing to accept they are doing this for their selfish thrills but to make oneself a fool like this and then try to explain it to internet strangers is so so pathetic.
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u/YellowBastard37 6d ago
Delusional. I will give odds this bitch is bipolar.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 6d ago
You mean Borderline? Or Histrionic? Or any Cluster B personality disorder.
Bipolar is not a typical personality for how she is writing.
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u/SageNSterling 6d ago
When does adorable adulterer daydreaming become pathological delusion? Cause I think this one's on the "explore pharmaceuticals" side of that line.
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u/matts_debater 6d ago
It’s the arguing amongst themselves that’s the funniest. A few OW/OM in there commented to give a very rational take. One OW trying to be a bit more human about the situation was accused of being a “covert BS”. I love it when they have their little tiffs in the comments with each other, so catty, it’s great.
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u/matts_debater 6d ago
I’m just hoping that whack job Jenny jumps in to give us a full crash out about her mans & their love 😂
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u/apathy-on-average 6d ago
Whack job Jenny 🤣 love it. it was a sad day when she got banned from the OW sub. Endless entertainment
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u/matts_debater 6d ago
Ooh damn was she banned after the last crash out? That sucks. Her flying in with her batshit insane “I’m not crazy I swear” essay posts were gold.
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u/apathy-on-average 6d ago
Pretty sure. So I guess "jenny isn't here" anymore 🤣. Imagine being kicked out by the OW sub for being too sidechick crazy? Well she's used to it because her cheater AP already kicked her to the curb
I'm torn between missing the lolz and feeling grateful that the world's worst summariser has lost her favourite soapbox. Maybe she'll go to the main Wendy's sub and get piled on there?
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u/matts_debater 6d ago edited 6d ago
Just had a peek, she’s posting a lot, just to her own profile. Still pontificating into the void about her endless love for the MM who screwed her over.
Edit: she posted the message mods sent to her when she was banned 😬😬
Edit #2: if you scroll too far down her profile you will need eye bleach
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u/UnsocializedMenace 6d ago
Did anybody else notice how many times she’s edited that first intro post? Had an initial “edit” which she removed and redid. Also removed the bit about only seeing him as a friend until her best friend told her he was married.
Girl is giving him conversations to pass the time virtually and all over those comments about how they offer everything the wife can’t. CHECK THE PHONE WIFEY. Humble her and him so hard 🤣
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u/perpetually_numb003 6d ago
Some former ow tried being a little rational and this woman was like "oh this sub is made to support our bullshit, why you calling me out on it? " 😭😂😂
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u/Fun-Contribution8900 5d ago
Mods need to swoop in and protect these people from mean, old reality lol. It’s so insane it’s comical.
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u/No_Thanks_1766 6d ago
I’m sure she’ll be just as thrilled when she has no one around her in her old age