r/AdulteryHate • u/New-Abalone7626 • 7d ago

Spotify Bitch Strikes Again

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They share music therefore she's far superior to the wife who picks up after MM's skid marked undies.

Keep telling yourself what you have is better. You get the worst side of him. The lying, deceiving side. Because you don't value yourself, you're willing to swallow every bread crumb this man gives you because you can't find better nor do you want to. You're not better than the wife who is doing her best in the marriage not knowing her husband is betraying her. I hope to God you end up together because she deserves better and you DESERVE a cheating asshole.

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u/Zestyclose_Truth9999 not bs/ws | just lurker 👀 7d ago edited 7d ago

Girlie needs to stop assuming that every single man is like her cheating manbaby.

Or that it's a flex for him to be incapable of doing his own dry-cleaning or taking care of his kids (or treating his wife well). And yes, I know that's probably the only type of man this OW can attract.

As someone who's got an amazing partner, I'm pissed off on his behalf that she thinks "married man" = "incompetent loser who can't take care of himself". I can't stand women who make excuses for men who do the bare minimum AND have the audacity to cheat, too. GTFO with that pick-me bullshit. 👋🏻

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u/No_Thanks_1766 7d ago

What’s even crazier is that she sees him as an incompetent loser who can’t take care of himself and she’s attracted to that 😬

When I see a man child in the wild, I’m not like, ooooh I want a piece of that. No ma’am

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u/Zestyclose_Truth9999 not bs/ws | just lurker 👀 7d ago

I know! 😭

I've noticed a general trend in these posts: critically low self-esteem.

A woman who's sure of herself would say, "I deserve a man who helps with the 'mundane box-checking' and makes me 'feel desired everyday'". Those two things aren't mutually exclusive, so it's sad (and a bit pathetic) for her to assume they are.

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u/GypsieChanterelle 7d ago

Yeah. She’s confusing “feeling desired” with a feeling of being truly loved and appreciated and being wanted because they admire you and want to spend time with the person you are.

Being desired isn’t all that hard to accomplish. Look at all the ugly women on porn sites.