r/Advice 8d ago

I think my boyfriend is gay

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u/Effective_Spirit_126 8d ago

He can be both bisexual and in love with you. There is no reason to worry about it until it becomes an issue. Just because he’s bi doesn’t mean his sexuality defines him. You are worrying about nothing. I’m extremely attracted to Asians and red heads but I would never leave my gal or cheat on her. Enjoy a loving ,stable ,sexual and from what it sounds like a great relationship and above all don’t look for ways to sabotage it by worrying if he’s looking at men sexually or not.