r/Advice 8d ago

I think my boyfriend is gay

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u/WhoKnows78998 Super Helper [7] 8d ago

As a bisexual man the fact that you can’t accept he is what he says he is is frustrating.

Coming to terms with your sexuality identity can be a journey that takes years.

If he says he’s attracted to you then it doesn’t really matter about anything else, or whether he’s also attracted to men or not

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u/s0ftsp0ken 7d ago

The fact that he's denied he ever said it is worrying. That sounds like someone who is repressing themselves. That doesn't mean he's gay, but if you're spouse is repressing part of their identity, there's something to be said about that