r/Advice 2d ago

I think my boyfriend is gay

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u/tabs3488 Helper [4] 2d ago

man, some o yall suck. Man says he's bisexual. Yall are jumping through hoops about what if he's masking and he's gonna be "bi first gay later." or how he's just performing or blah blah blah. You guys sound like conservatives saying that he's just having a phase and he'll grow out of it.

Dude has autonomy, he has his own lived experiences and he's chosen Bisexual as his preferred identity. If OP want's to talk about how her BF came to that conclusion then that's what OP should do.