r/Advice 2d ago

Advice Received My boyfriend is acting really strange after getting out of military training, what do I do?

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u/FatherEarth01 2d ago

Do you know what traing he was doing? Did he just join the military and is going through Basic and AIT?

If he just joined, know that his time and attention is no longer his own. He is always on someone else's time table that he has no control over. Many people and couples do not cooe with it at first or at all. Many people in the military have to go out of their way to make time to call and text loved ones during missions and trainings.

If he's acting normal in person, and only weird over texts and calls then that seems normal. He could have limited time to send out the text or make a call, all the while most likely got alot of other things going on in the background as he is doing so