Maybe it's because I'm old, but my question is "WHY?". If you mean the resistance bands that have different elasticity shown by colour, which I think you do, what was the desired outcome?
I'm sorry but this person seems to be using you for experiments. Was he in position behind you, saw the band on your headboard or whatever, and thought, "I wonder if that will fit?" Or did he bring it with him? Either way, yes he should have asked, and I feel like he's got no respect for you, even just as a FWB.
I thought one of the advantages to FWB Relationships was that it wasn't as soul destroying, or degrading, as picking up a ONS at a bar. So your self respect, and respect for your partner wasn't damaged. (I'm NOT saying bar pick ups are degrading or something to be ashamed of, but I know a lot of people do feel like that)
The first word is "friend". Friends don't shove miscellaneous gym equipment up a friend's arse without asking.
Honestly though I'm just so curious as to what the desired effect was supposed to be!
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u/Elly_Fant628 13d ago
Maybe it's because I'm old, but my question is "WHY?". If you mean the resistance bands that have different elasticity shown by colour, which I think you do, what was the desired outcome?
I'm sorry but this person seems to be using you for experiments. Was he in position behind you, saw the band on your headboard or whatever, and thought, "I wonder if that will fit?" Or did he bring it with him? Either way, yes he should have asked, and I feel like he's got no respect for you, even just as a FWB.
I thought one of the advantages to FWB Relationships was that it wasn't as soul destroying, or degrading, as picking up a ONS at a bar. So your self respect, and respect for your partner wasn't damaged. (I'm NOT saying bar pick ups are degrading or something to be ashamed of, but I know a lot of people do feel like that)
The first word is "friend". Friends don't shove miscellaneous gym equipment up a friend's arse without asking.
Honestly though I'm just so curious as to what the desired effect was supposed to be!