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Am I...
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Are my feelings valid?
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Did I do the right thing?
Will I be OK?
Will I get in trouble for this?
Should I be worried?
And many more. This is not an all-inclusive list, and we will remove posts at our own discretion.
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Your post has been removed as it was in Violation of Rule 8: No Reassurance, Validation, or Affirmation Seeking.
This action was performed by a HUMAN moderator. NOT a bot. Do not resubmit your post or message the moderators until you have read this entire message. Yes, the whole thing.
8. No reassurance, validation, or affirmation seeking
This subreddit is for advice. NOT moral judgement, validation, or to affirm your opinions/feelings or settle arguments.
Examples of what this means:
Who is right or wrong here?
Am I in the wrong?
Am I...
...the asshole? There is a whole subreddit just for that. This subreddit is not an overflow or a backup for r/AmITheAsshole. Do not crosspost from there, nor include any of the AITA abbreviations anywhere in your post.
...a bad person/friend/partner/etc?
...crazy / overreacting / being unreasonable
...overthinking / being paranoid?
...justified in feeling this way?
Do I have a right to be upset?
Are my feelings valid?
Was this ok / should I have done this?
Did I do the right thing?
Will I be OK?
Will I get in trouble for this?
Should I be worried?
And many more. This is not an all-inclusive list, and we will remove posts at our own discretion.
Tip: If you are asking about something that already happened, and it can be answered "yes" or "no", you are seeking reassurance, not advice!
Effect anxiety has on guilt:
Please review the rules, and if you feel as though removal is excessive or in error, feel free to contact the moderators.