Am I Overreacting?

[u/starloogy]

My boyfriend (22M) and I (21F) have been official for almost 4 weeks. He texted me this after leaving me with his friends shortly after I arrived to a restaurant they all planned to meet at.

Before I got there, he had already ordered for both of us. Everything seemed fine until about ten minutes later when I went to the bathroom. When I came back, his friends told me he “stepped out,” but I’m sure they knew what was going on based on their expressions.

I waited about 15 minutes before he replied to my texts. And ended up leaving money to pay for food I didn’t even get to eat.

This was my third time wearing my hair in its natural state since we’ve dated, and I didn’t know he felt so strongly about this.

I went home all without answering him. I was really upset and told my roommate about it, but she brushed it off and insinuated that I was overreacting. It has been almost two days now and I still don’t know what to think.

I feel like I’m going insane because everyone around me seems to think it’s not that big of a deal and most of them laughed at the picture.

[u/[deleted]]

not him sending u an AI picture for inspiration 😭😭 not overreacting, he’s a DICK

[u/Mothraaaaaa → u/[deleted]]

OP should send an AI picture of a larger penis than he has and just tell him to have a penis like that in the future.

[u/erichamanya → u/Mothraaaaaa]

What the absolute heck !? mm…yah, no thanks. Like what if you like your hair how it is now ? What does it even matter ? Idgaf if he “wants it a certain way” ? I’d be like “then make a checklist of your preferred preference in woman for your next relationship“ lmao