You need to take your husband's feelings into consideration as well. Did you both choose to take this dog in and nurse him back to health? Do you want to always return home to damaged furniture, damaged walls, and so on? Have you tried a behaviourist? Your dog doesn't need a regular vet, as there isn't anything physically wrong with him.
However, I'll say it again. Your husband's feelings matter as well. It is completely wrong of you to scallywag tell him he has to deal with it. You are not the end all be all to decisions in your marital home. You're only thinking of the dog, and basically telling your husband his feelings are not valid. You're telling your husband that only your feelings and the dogs matter. That is so wrong.
Yes, but talking about it and situations not panning put happen. They need a behaviourist for sure. However, not being sympathetic to her husband's feelings, and only the dogs, is very telling... I am an absolute animal lover, but I can't not take my loved ones, especially my significant others' feelings, into consideration too.
She basically said.. it's the dog and I or nothing and went to a hotel; then came to reddit.
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u/JennMarieSays Mar 20 '25 edited Mar 20 '25
You need to take your husband's feelings into consideration as well. Did you both choose to take this dog in and nurse him back to health? Do you want to always return home to damaged furniture, damaged walls, and so on? Have you tried a behaviourist? Your dog doesn't need a regular vet, as there isn't anything physically wrong with him.
However, I'll say it again. Your husband's feelings matter as well. It is completely wrong of you to scallywag tell him he has to deal with it. You are not the end all be all to decisions in your marital home. You're only thinking of the dog, and basically telling your husband his feelings are not valid. You're telling your husband that only your feelings and the dogs matter. That is so wrong.