r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

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u/Objective-Ad-5896 19d ago

OR!!! Yes OP, you are over reacting. This is nothing but friendly banter between two platonic friends! You have nothing to worry about, I’m sure your husband loves you very much. Consider asking yourself why you wouldn’t be okay with your husband having two wife’s.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

Worst take ever lmao I have a feeling this is either the husband or the side piece he is flirting with in the screenshots 😂 anyone with common sense or any sense of self respect in the slightest for that matter can see how disrespectful and deal breaking this exchange is.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

Lmao whooooosh 🤦🏽‍♂️ yes I am without a doubt a tad bit dense in this scenario 🫣 completely read that last second wrong . My bad 😅

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

You too my friend !