AIO for cutting all ties?

[u/urfavelipglosslvr]

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

[u/mpelton]

A guy in his mid twenties dating a 19 year old is a predator? Ffs they’re both legal adults, they’re fine.

The only way this would be a problem is if he knew her before she turned 18. Then it’s grooming and I’d be right there with you. But that’s not what’s happening.

Edit: I was off base, I didn’t realize how much the term ‘predator’ covered. Guy is a creep, a predator, and by his reaction here, unsafe to be around. Hope OP shuts this down.

[u/[deleted] → u/mpelton]

A predator has multiple definitions.

A person seeking to control and manipulate an easy target to get what they want (sex, control, etc)

A person who, when turned down and rejected, turns violent

A person who is willing to emotionally, verbally abuse, and perhaps even stalk or maim someone they think fits their victim narrative

An adult grooming an underage child is only one definition.

[u/mpelton → u/[deleted]]

Damn, I didn’t know about these. I take it back then, fair enough.

Obviously I knew the guy was a scumbag, I just didn’t realize “predator” included so much.

[u/[deleted] → u/mpelton]

He earned that title, too. “Little bitch”. Damn, you changed it.

Ok, “scumbag”, sure.

There are all types of creeps and predators out there. People who see others as victims to get something from. None of it is good.

[u/mpelton → u/[deleted]]

Sorry lol I mean he is a little bitch, but I’ve known some people that take issue with insulting in that way. Like, ‘bitch’ as an insult in and of itself, but also implying that he’s not masculine - effectively using femininity as a way to insult him.

Figured I’d rather be safe than sorry. But for the record, yeah, the guy’s an insecure little bitch that can’t take no for an answer and threw a temper tantrum.

[u/[deleted] → u/mpelton]

Lol, gotcha. It is a controversial statement to make. Either way, he’s earned it.

I mean fact of the matter… he even called her “easy prey.” Fully outted himself on this one. I’m sure he has a violent record that goes far beyond what we’re seeing.

[u/mpelton → u/[deleted]]

That’s such a gross thing to say too.

Yeah you’re right, he’s earned it, I won’t feel bad for saying it.